It is with a heavy heart that I will be deactivating my Facebook account. Since joining I have connected with friends from school, made some awesome online friends and connected with people here in my own town, I have enjoyed sharing recipes, pictures, stories and praying for those that needed prayer as well as asking for prayers myself. The whole reason for joining Facebook was to keep in touch with my daughter and grandson. In April I went to visit my grandson and celebrate his birthday. While there my parenting skills and the disciplinary techniques were questioned. My thirteen developed an attitude and a teen and menopause do not mix. This led to an argument with my daughter in which I told my thirteen year old it was because of her and her attitude, this then led to a big blow up the day after my grandsons birthday party (but on his actual birthday) none the less I was told I ruined his birthday. I was accused by my son in law of making my grand daughter stand in a corner for an hour the night before, which of course was not true, but how would he know that he spends his days playing World of War Craft, only coming out to eat and go to the bathroom. When I defended myself against the accusation my son in law lost his temper and put his fist through the wall while leaving the room which resulted in my daughter turning to me and saying F you. A lot of other things transpired which from what I here were overly exaggerated by my daughter and which borders on lies. My son in law came back into the room a few minutes and tells me to get the F out of his house and never to step foot in F-ing his house again. I gather up my 3 granddaughters ages 5, 4, 2 and my thirteen year old daughter and we left to find a hotel room at 10:00 at night. My daughter then proceeded to call brothers and sister so she could tell them her side of what happened before I could and that is where the exaggeration and lies come into play. I didn’t say anything to them until they came to me to see what happened or I asked what she had told them. My daughter promised me she wouldn’t keep me from my grandson and she wouldn’t block me from my grandson’s Facebook page but on Mother’s Day she did just that and blocked me from hers as well, great Mother’s Day present huh. Just recently my niece accused me of withholding court papers from her, that her stepmother told her she forwarded to me and has blocked me from her page also. She and my daughter have now joined forces and now have made insinuations of me doing some cyber stalking and making fake Facebook pages to keep tabs on them. They have taken to bashing me and they are questioning my Christianity. I have no way to prove any different. I have not block either one of them from my page. I posted a picture of my grandson, one of her family members sent me and she reported me to Facebook and they took it down. I have recently been told that if they report their accusations of cyber stalking and fake pages I could be banned from Facebook. So I am giving notice, by 10:00 Monday night my page will be deactivated as well as my daughters. She and I have discussed this and she agrees that if her Facebook is active I will be accused of using hers so she would rather it be deactivated. I realize there are those out there that will say that this is not the place to air this but you have not lived with what I have had to put up with since April and those that have undoubtedly heard my daughter’s side of the story, then you have heard her version and it borders on the untruth. I have had private messages sent to me from both girls and they say what they want to say to me and then they tell me don’t bother to reply and somehow they were able to enable me from replying and I am tired of this happening to me. They have the know how to do this I do not. My daughter who is no longer speaking to me is the one who set up my Facebook to begin with so we could keep in touch. I have really enjoyed my time on Facebook and I am going to miss interacting with my friends and family, I am going to miss sharing recipes and crafting ideas too, but I feel this is best, the stress it is causing is not worth it anymore. To those I am in the middle of a games with I am sorry. I don’t know when I will activate my page again or if I ever will. Thank you for your understanding in this situation. I will discuss any questions anyone may have privately from here on out. I pray God Blesses and keeps everyone safe.
Posted on: Mon, 25 Aug 2014 03:13:01 +0000
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