Its so funny to think about how far Dennis and I have come since we were married almost 42 years ago. All our friends can tell you ~ we fought like cats and dogs. For years. Serious, awful fights. I rolled my eyes at him more times that you can count. Yes...I gave him the finger probably just as often. There were several times he was darned lucky there wasnt a weapon in the house. Im sure he felt the same way about me. I remember once I somehow had gotten my hands on divorce papers ~ I dont think they were real and I never filed for divorce, so they werent from a lawyer that I can recall ~ and I hung them on the refrigerator. He called it a threat. I called it a gentle reminder. ;) This morning he came downstairs, did a few things, went back upstairs, and came back down and said, I forgot to tell you something. I love you. So sweet, right? Tonight, I was sitting on the couch with my laptop (I didnt want to work upstairs...I at least wanted to be in the room with him) while he was watching football, and he says, You are so content, arent you? Its because of God, isnt it? I just that was such a wonderful thing to say to me! I love that he notices the peace in my heart, even during stressful times. Of course, a few minutes later we were arguing about who had more sleep last night, but still..... ;) I know how fortunate we are to still be married. Were no different than so many couples who dont make it through, so Im not sure how or why we have. We are either head-over-heels in love, or just very stubborn. Probably both. But I am convinced that there has been divine intervention at play. We are not strong enough on our own to have gotten through what weve gone through without Gods hand in it. But were still here, and we are happier than ever. Our different personalities will always keep things interesting, but Im up for the challenge and so is he. Weve come to accept that we run hot and cold. And I mean, from minute to minute. And were both okay with that. Call it passion. ;) Just a little encouragement for any young married couples out there. Or any couples that are struggling. Believe me, no matter how bad things are, they can change. Its a rough ride, but so worth it.
Posted on: Tue, 30 Dec 2014 02:27:35 +0000
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