Ive finally concluded that if I didnt have to deal with other people, life would be easy! Do you ever feel that way? It just amazes me how many people dont think like I think, dont see things the way I see them, dont hold the same obviously correct opinion that I hold! Often when we must deal with unpleasant people, we focus so much on their negative qualities that we totally lose sight of their good ones. The King James Version says to think about the good reports, and I love that phrase, because so often Im prone to think about the bad reports. That person who is causing you trouble right now-there is some good report about that person if youll just look for it. Make yourself think about the good report, the new frame youve put them in. Youll be amazed at how much easier it is to get along with them. Once you get used to this practice of re-framing people who are difficult, youll discover the great side benefits: Reduced stress, less anxiety, better sleep, happier days. You will benefit more than anyone else when you learn to re-frame and think about the good reports, not just the bad ones. A small attitude re-framing tip... Dr Naomi Singh
Posted on: Fri, 14 Mar 2014 10:06:55 +0000
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