................ JUST A THOUGHT !! ........... There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Even if it seems perfect now, it won’t always be. Imperfection, however, is real and beautiful. The quality of the happiness between two people grows in direct proportion to their acceptance, and in inverse proportion to their intolerance and expectations. It’s how two people accept and deal with imperfections of their relationship that make it ideal.Of course, this doesn’t mean that you have to accept everyone into your life who is willing to accept you, even if they are obviously not right foryou. But it does mean that if there are occasional difficulties in your relationships, you don’t have to jump to the bold conclusion that the entire relationship is bad, and become so distressed that the relationship ends, or so insecure that the other person questions your intentions.No meaningful relationship will always work flawlessly all the time. Being too black and white about the quality and health of a relationship spells trouble. There will always be difficulties present, but you can still focus on the good. Insecure people constantly look for signs of what’s not working in their relationships. What you need to do is look for the signs of what can make your relationship grow.... So, you must notice the strong qualities, the chances for victories, and encourage the goals and ambitions in your affair. Challenge yourself to be the best you can be everyday. Acknowledge just how amazing both of you are!!....
Posted on: Sat, 12 Jul 2014 10:29:27 +0000
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