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Joses ex refuses to let his children see me or be around me & claims her kids hate me!! I was helping José get some things out of his car.....Both his boys walked back by the car, his youngest of the 2, Donivin, walked up to me with arms wide open, jumping up & down with excitement, asking me for a hug! His oldest, Damion, was happy to see me & said Hi Alecia! also with excitement. Damion also bonded with me ALOT the last time they spent time with us at Joses mothers house, back in July of this year. He chose me over his own father for alot of things such as; being on a team together for our water balloon fight, playing certain games with me & even ganging up on his dad during playful wrestling/fighting. He even told his dad that we had our own club & José wasnt allowed, the club was just Donivin, himself & I.!! These children have not been allowed around me since that day & are still not allowed, but saw me today..... Donivin seen me & immediately got excited & wanted a hug. He will be 3yrs old next week on the 23rd....The fact that he has not been around me, seen me, or even talked to me since then, yet obviously still remembers & actually MISSES me, shows & says alot all on its own! Now correct me if Im wrong, but children who act like this towards someone most definitely do NOT hate that person, but instead, love & adore that person! Its sad when a woman is THAT bitter, angry, jealous & insecure over her ex & his new new, that she would keep her children from their father unless he was alone! CLEARLY your supposed good reasons for keeping your children from me hold NO weight because if your children were not safe or not being treated right around me.....they most DEFINITELY would NOT act the way they do towards me & about me. If your son has EVER actually told YOU he hated me, it was because he knew thats what YOU wanted him to say. Its really sad that a child would ever be made to feel that way & its pathetic that any mother would ever impose those kinds of thoughts & feelings on her child, simply because shes bitter about her ex moving on! Whether you want it to happen or exist or not, I DO have a relationship with those boys & its a good one! Whether you like it or not, those boys DO love me & DONT hate me! Once again, all you will do in the end is hurt your own relationship with your children when they learn with time that YOU kept them from us, most importantly from José, & wouldnt allow them to have a relationship with their fathers girlfriend because you are bitter & jealous!
Posted on: Fri, 17 Oct 2014 00:33:17 +0000

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