Lesson for today; Victims of abuse learn to abandon themselves and become pain and shame driven rather than truth driven! We are taught to disown ourselves and to think like victims. The focus of our lives becomes to AVOID PAIN! So I am here to help you change that. In healing, we learn to change this focus to one in which we focus on joy...NOT pain. We learn who we REALLY are and to love ourselves! We learn to accept ourselves warts and all as ENOUGH, perfect in our being WITHOUT self-criticism and fault-finding judgment. We learn vitality, courage and self respect. We learn to think like winners, rather than settlers. We learn to formulate opinions and values that are our own. We learn to take informed risks and make decisions based on our OWN internal cues that we TRUST and RELY on. We learn to understand our self worth and assert it. We learn to take ourselves BACK, to re-own ourselves. We learn to do what WE want and need to do rather than what others expect of us and pursue our self-serving goals. We learn to care for ourselves and respect our and others personal rights and authorities. We learn to raise our level of consciousness and self esteem to recognize those who are using us for their personal gain. We learn to use our compassion for ourselves and others responsibly. We learn to become resilient and bounce back quickly from setbacks. We learn how to be the best versions of ourselves we were intended to me. It is the best demonstration of self love we could give ourselves. And in that new found truth, we thrive and we are happy! Blessings! Evelyn, Yourlifelifter _________________________________
Posted on: Sat, 24 Jan 2015 21:25:21 +0000