“Letting It Go … Moving On” Times change … people change. And while change is inevitable, growth – in itself – can be an enriching experience! As such, if a relationship is not working out then it is wise to let it go and move on. Perhaps you’re not just meant for each other. Notwithstanding, there’s no need to hate the situation and circumstances. Just let it go and move on! Kahlil Gibran once said; “If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. If they dont, they never were.” It means that LOVE isn’t owned and cannot be taken. It can only be given. If you love someone, you have to give them the freedom to choose for himself. The freedom to choose is important, as sometimes a love is out of duty, loyalty, fear (of loneliness or retaliation) or for some other reason. By turning the other person loose, and if they come back, it is because they love you, which means the feeling is mutual. If they don’t come back, you would only have been fighting a losing battle to hold on to them. That is a battle that you will eventually lose, so let it go early and get on with your life. The thing is, “letting go” is the easy part, it’s the “moving on” that is painful but one way or the other we have to deal with it. So if you really want to move on then find a way to accept. Sometimes, it is the “not accepting” that holds you back. Don’t let false beliefs, old heartache or bitterness hold you back … CHINUP and CHEER UP. Just remind your self that some birds are not meant to be caged; their feathers are just too bright. UPD College of Science 06-79377 RNI
Posted on: Sun, 23 Mar 2014 16:19:27 +0000
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