Listen... I think that a lot of people need to hear this, because it is important. 1. If you continue to let negative and unhealthy people into your life, whether it is men, women, friends, family, coworkers, etc... your life is GOING to represent that of an unhealthy and negative one. You CANNOT CHANGE someone. 2. If you are not happy with who that person is to begin with, let him or her go. Wanting to better someones perspective, life or work ethic will only let yourself down, unless that person is willing to meet halfway and wants to better his or herself for their own needs first, and your needs secondly. 3. If you keep giving a person second, third, and fourth chances, there are no consequences. They are not losing sleep or batting an eye over the fact that they know you will always want them back, so put your foot down and dont let that person manipulate you into letting them back in. 4. Focus on fixing yourself BEFORE FIXING OTHERS. I cannot emphasize this enough.... we need to stop wanting to fix and perfect others and need to focus on what makes ourself happy. When we are happy, EVERYTHING ELSE THAT MAKES US HAPPY IS A BONUS (significant others, friends, achievements, etc)
Posted on: Fri, 28 Mar 2014 18:07:08 +0000
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