Love actually If we can imagine that whole life is one story that every second is somewhere written, and there are not randoms, there are just situations affected by our actions, and we react in a certain way, with a certain intensity, depth, and connected to our reactions are feelings which we do not own, they just dwell in us for some time, then we can say our life is therefore our choice, our body is some kind of a temporary box for our thoughts, our wisdom, feeling and everything we experience is a choice of values, priorities and ways of being „perfect“. It follows that, as beings with some knowledge we are free, respectively we should be free. What is freedom? It is a choice. The possibility of finding the truth, our own experiences and reaching our own wisdom. And also the possibility of giving a sense to our life. If our feelings do not belong to us, what are feelings then? And what is love, if we are sure we love and we need to own love. Feelings can only fill us for certain time and it will give us some sense, naturalism and wisdom. Known cliche that women just feel and they are closer to feelings, therefore closer to love. If pays the difference in genders, it is also true that men are forms for womens feelings. So if a woman pours feelings into a man there is a contact, connection between them. And each connection is love. So love is also a feeling that comes, acts, flies away and returns again. Love is the feeling we can ignore or not accept. We have a choice. Therefore, it is so closely associated with freedom. So we can boldly say, that love is freedom. Without freedom there is almost no love. We cannot be told to love someone or something. And that, what is nowadays called love is just a phenomenon limited romantic relationship and possession. It does not hurt, because it is fed with artificially created happiness, and if pain comes, it easily falls apart because pain shows the truth. Therefore love and freedom are cutting the heart into pieces, so that is why there is pain. Pain cannot be avoided, but with love, we know what to do with pain. This argument implies that if a heart feels freedom, it has a choice and therefore it does not feel only one kind of love. So, there is not only one status of loving. Therefore with freedom we can love however and whatever, what is connected with us. The conclusion is, that love has no limits, we can not own love, nor modify nor generalize. The other is something different, maybe passion or possession. And then, it is not love.
Posted on: Sun, 10 Aug 2014 17:35:04 +0000
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