Love this!! The husband needs to implement the romance of the Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam..By looking attentively at the biography of the Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam, you will find that he was the most romantic person who walked on this Earth… SubhanAllah.. Take A Look!!!! 1) Know their feelings:The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam once said to Sayyidah Aisha radiallahu anha : “I know well when you are pleased or angry with me. Aisha replied: How you know that? He said: When you are pleased with me you swear by saying “By the God of Mohammad” but when you are angry you swear by saying “By the God of Ibrahim”. She said: You are right, I don’t mention your name.[Bukhari 5228] 2) Console her :Safiyah radiallahu anha was on a journey with the Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam. She was late so the Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam received her while she was crying. The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam wiped her tears with his own hands and tried his utmost to calm her down. [9117] 3) Laying in the wife’s lap: The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam would recline in the lap of our beloved mother Sayyidah Aisha radaillahu anha even in the state when she would be menstruating. The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam would recite the Qur ān whilst reclining in his wife’s lap.[Bukhari 297] 4) Drinking and eating from one place: Aisha radiallahu anha would drink from a cup. The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam would take this cup and search for the place where the lips of his beloved wife made contact.Upon finding the place where his wife drank from the cup, he would put his lips on the very same place so that his lips have touched the place where her lips touched. He would then drink the contents of the cup at the same time enjoying union with his spouse. When there was meat to eat,Aisha radiallahu anha would take a bite. The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam would take the meat from her hand and again place his mouth the very same place where his wife ate from. This would add taste of love to his food. [Muslim1006] 5) Kissing: The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam would kiss his wife regularly.Even when he salallahu alaihi wasallam would be fasting, he would kiss his wife.[Muslim 1106] 6) Lifting the morsel to her mouth: The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam said : If you spend an amount you will be rewarded for it, -even when you lift the morsel to your wife’s mouth.” [Muslim 6733] 7) Assisting her in the housework. 8) Sharing happy occasions with her: Once when the Ethiopians were practicing target shooting in the masjid complex, the Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam stood with his wife watching. Not only did the Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam stand with his wife, he put his cloak around her. The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam although he had other jobs to do, he stayed there standing with his wife. He only went when his wife wanted to go.[Ahmed 26358] 9) Calling her by a beautiful name: The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam would call his wife ayesh (r.a) ‘Humairā’’ out of love. Linguistically it means the little reddish one, but the scholars state that in reality it refers to someone who is so fair that due to the sun they get a reddish tan. This was the reason why the Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam called her Humairaa’.[Ibn Maja 2474] 10) Dress for your spouse: Sayyiduna Ibn Abbās radiallahu anhu said: “As my wife adorns herself for me, I adorn myself for her. I do not want to take all of my rights from her so that she will not take all of her rights from me because Allah, the Exalted, stated the following: “And women shall have rights similar to the rights against them.” (Qur ān 2 :228.) 11) )Do not talk about her private matters: The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam described the one who discloses his wife’s affairs to others as amongst the worst of people.[Muslim 1437].
Posted on: Wed, 07 May 2014 15:45:48 +0000
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