Loveis perhaps the most complicated of all the emotions mankind has ever known.Whatever I have understood up till now helps me to conjecture that as opposed to popular belief; love is selfless, love is something that helps us to become more selfish, adds more meaning to self existence and adds new dimensions of self indulgence and gratification.We still continue to live in an age where barter system is not done away with and is practiced in disguised forms with celebrated names, one such fancy name being love: a convenient mechanism that aids in transactions at subliminal levels which of course helps to grandiose self image and affects ego inlflation.The engaged beings make their best effort to strike the best deal in not only material sense but also in metaphysical terms as well.Those in love would indiscreetly continue to remain as participant in giver and recipient relationship in anticipation of reaping the benefits of self glorification when exact and equal worth things are finally transacted. Alas...! Human mind gets biased while measuring the worth of the entities or things involved, may be just because of the fear of disengagement with the deal itself. This results in a situation of cautious optimism and pleasant confusion which furthers the chances of inception of nebulous things in the ongoing transaction elevating the complexity level of judging or evaluating the situation so much so that the well within the reach thing becomes a dream. If the initial investments and stakes are high,then there are chances that the lovers would continue make efforts towards the realization of the thing: the dream . The hazy nature of the business makes the task inexact and thus presents it as interesting and so is conceived as more joyful. In due course of time the associated joy element supplants the attainment of the equlibirum ( the deal: the dream ) as a priority and the initial agreed upon terms slowly but surely are forgotten, rendered as obsolete, and new rules of the game are sought after.And with the passage of time it evolves in a complicated fashion. Mathematically Love can be construed as a Stochastic Game and hence undeterministic and perhaps thats why it is a form of celebrated and cerebrally rewarding human emotion.
Posted on: Fri, 21 Mar 2014 22:46:22 +0000
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