"Many romantic difficulties arise when a couple’s character defects are “compatible.” Do not be confused by the term compatible when referring to the defects that romantic partners can share. We are not talking about character defects that eliminate each other or cancel each other out. Compatible, in this use, means that the character defects of each partner keep on activating the defects of the other partner. As a couple, each partner’s defects are working together to perpetuate and intensify the other!...A perfect example of compatible defects is when one partner is a “bully” while the other revels in “playing the victim.” When defects are compatible like “bullying” and “being the victim,” ~John and Elaine Leadem , “Let It Begin with Me”: the Secret to Healing in Your Relationship" blogs.psychcentral/couples/2013/07/let-it-begin-with-me/?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=facebook
Posted on: Thu, 01 Aug 2013 10:57:58 +0000
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