Men should have protective jealousy (gheerah) concerning his wife and his honour. The Sahaabah were impressed by the strong gheerah of Sa’d ibn ‘Ubaadah (may Allaah be pleased with him), and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Are you amazed by the gheerah of Sa’d? I have more gheerah than him, and Allaah has more gheerah than me.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6846; Muslim, 1499. If men dont have protective jealousy over their wives and women then take this as a warning... The prophet Muhammad said A Dayooth will not enter Jannah. The Sahabah asked, Who is a Dayooth? Rasoolullah sallallahu alaihe wasallam said, A man who does not care who visits his wife (i.e. men). And on the issue of Ghayrah, Ibn al-Qayyim, rahimahullaah, said, And the Dayyouth (the man with no jealousy over the women in his family) is the most vile of Allahs creation, and Jannah is forbidden for him, (because of his lack of gheerah - jealousy). The foundation of the Religion is Gheerah , and the one without Gheerah is one without Religion, for Gheerah protects the heart and enlivens the limbs, and shields one from evil and lewdness, and lack of Gheerah kills the heart so that the limbs die, so that there remains not even shielding from [the minor things]. And the example of Gheerahin the heart is the example of the strength that shields one from sickness and fights it off, so if the strength leaves, he will be faced with the sickness, and will not find any thing to protect himself from it, so it will establish itself [within him] and destroy him . Ad-Daa Wad-Dawaa, p.77
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