Mondays thought session.......... have not done one of these for a while .... Today i had a conversation with one of the most humblest female athletes i have met in a long time...it was interesting to hear how she as dealing with another and how a simple conversation led into a reactive argument . she managed to keep her cool but the other person umm different story.. i also saw on Facebook today , how a ladys new tattoo started a bit of a ra ra , where a male thought it was fine to belittle the other as he found her tattoo not appealing, sad but yes another argument in the making .... From my own experiences i have found that when two do not agree in a matter or that your views do not match the other persons, that when you try to prove yourself right , when you try to make the other wrong, then some one will be hurt, Some one will feel an emotional roller coaster which in turn may lead to aggressive language or behaviour which then leads to an argument... What we need to realise as humans, IN MY OPINION , is that when one is talking, for me to get my message across, i just need to listen.. i just need to sit back and accept that THEIR OWN REALITY of the situation and not try and validate myself. i do not need to wave a big flag and brag look at me that i am so right , i allow my actions to speak louder. If someone is fanatical about a subject , [eg religion , or strapping a bomb to themselves to blow up and kill innocent people (harsh example i know)], it does not matter how logical the evidence may be that contradicts the events at hand, their reality is that what they are saying or doing in their mind is correct and justified. ................... So my thought for the day is DONT ENGAGE!! DONT ENGAGE... take a deep breathe , accept that their views dont match yours and JUST BE YOURSELF .. then try and see why you surround yourself with this sort of people??? smile, enjoy life.. we are all different we are all NORMAL in our own minds , but then what is NORMAL??? food for thought peeps , have an amazing week. remember to smile , remember to listen. every day is a gift , make it special
Posted on: Mon, 14 Jul 2014 06:46:52 +0000
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