My Cancer Story After todays talk at LUMS i feel its essential to share this .My mother was invited to share her story of how she conquered the fear of the disease and how she is battling with it . Just sharing with the rest so no more mothers and sisters and daughters have to go through this pain. october is the breast cancer awareness month. Pakistan happens to be the only country in the world where 1 out of every 6 to 8 women will be a patient. Over the years i have lost a lot of people to cancer and i have also seen great recoveries . All of you out there the causes of why this is occurring are still not identified, the medical practitioners say what ever applies to west doesnt not apply here . One of the major causes is the food intake along with excess stress . This post is to share with you how i have seen cancer over the years and how we can all save each other. All the doctors i know are doing seminars in colleges and schools to create more awareness . Here is what all of you should read and share with anyone and everyone ! cancer has now become the story of every house ; so men need to understand also that the treatment requires their emotional involvement too. I have seen and worked with so many kinds of cancer patients however the most common amongst it has been breast cancer. So dear women and friends and all those who can read this : do not be afraid to face that we may encounter it . so here is what you can do : 1) eat right ,work out ( keep your bmi levels healthy ) 2) yes it all begins in the soul and the heart - so let go everyday ( its not worth it to be sensitive and keep things in your heart, deal with what you can and no everything in this world is not your responsibility so Stop when you cant )- like the body needs healing the soul needs healing too - yes listen to surah Rehman start from the inner let it help you be more positive . Fix your act , if you need to forgive someone do it asap, if you need to convey your point do it , do not wait to die inside ! 3)check yourself every few days- talk about self examination process to your helpers ( most of them cant afford mammograms) and people who may not have access to urban health centers- its our job to pass the message on so do it 4) decide about your treatment once you know you have to face it - whatever you may choose to do remember its a choice you make - surgeons will tell you its the best thing to do , alternative medicine doctors will tell you its the right thing to do ( so follow your heart do what must be done , but do not in any case delay it because you are afraid ) 5) if you have access to the best of alternative medicine sure do it but validate and keep track of it and yes chemotherapy and hormonal therapy and radiation will hurt you - but its a chance you take to live another life - do not be stupid about it 6) Be nice to people who face it - its a life changing process , understand that the person and their family go through the toughest time then - if you can be nice to them nothing like it - if you cant be nice stay away ,DO NOT meet them , if you cant give hope stay away from them .but in any case do not try and prove your points to them - it might be their test but it could be your test too 7)do visit walk in clinics , take free consultations, help people get access to the right process ( financially and morally ) and start working on yourself - be practical about it 8) be thankful in life everyday all of you - if today hurts for some reason remind yourself that you are a healthy person! know that its a blessing and do not forget how thankful you need to be about it …yes we all know it but we forget it 9 ) women are fragile and sensitive - so they must be helped with emotional control , help them be less vulnerable remind them that if they werent there you wouldnt be here and no this is not feminism . Do whatever you can to help them get back in action - do not sit and get depressed - it wouldnt help anyone.. 10 ) live everyday , stay happy , forgive , do whatever you can in that one day -love as much as you can . stop hatred , jealousy , negative energy from entering your system and playing with your mind . you are all precious and you are the best of creation - act like one and help others become that ( if you feel they need help do not criticize them enable them )
Posted on: Thu, 16 Oct 2014 17:00:03 +0000
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