My husband was Regina’s ex-boyfriend in high school at St. Louise College in San Fernando La Union. Jeff came here to Canada year 1994 (18 yrs) now. I don’t know kung she was the last ex-girl friend before me. I met my husband here in Montreal, Quebec Canada 1994 first boyfriend ko po sya, 8 years boyfriend before we get married. 10 years na po kaming kasal. We had 2 kids (daughter 10 yrs, son 3 yrs old). To make the story short, last April 16-20, 2012 pinadala ang asawa ko ng company for intensive project in Orange County, California. He said it’s an intensive project that they needed to work 12 hours a day 9am-9pm. What I didn’t know... the intensive project was Regina. Regina was at Los Angeles California for seminar or convention, from her work as well. It wasn’t a coincedence that they both sent exactly same date of completely different company. They really planned this meet up. But then, my husband admitted he came purposely for Regina, no work involved. They are together for 1 week in Los Angeles. And they had unfair in bed. Allan was aware about this affair. He already caught them 3x from emails and txting. Allan gave back the trust knowing they had stop it from there. According to my husband it’s been a year already this relationship going on. I have no idea as I haven’t notice any sign and they are both been doing the communications at work during work hours and all along I thought my husband was working hard and very devoted at work, yun pala may ibang ino overtime at tina-trabaho. Nung hinatid ni Allan si Regina sa airport, he notice something wrong (husband’s instict). So from there, Allan started to looked for me in Facebook. The first time he found out the affair, he already made a research who’s affailated with Jefferson, (wife, kids and relatives). Allan was trying to get in touch with me during that time that Regina was away for seminar. He was trying to add me up in facebook but since I don’t know Allan, I ignored him. Friday morning when Regina flew back to Sacraminto, may husband left Friday also at 7pm California time. Allan made Regina confess if she was with my husband during from the period she was away. Allan said to Regina... “ you better tell me now , you know me I will not stop until I will find out” So, Regina confess it all, she slept with my husband, they are together during those 5 days in L.A. Sobrang sakit po ng lahat, I attempted suicide, I lost 15 lbs in a week. My husband threatened me, If I distracted Regina he will leave me for good. But If I leave them alone, he promise to love me and we’ll leave our life the way it was before. Now, it’s been a year now and nothing improved. I’m still leaving in hell with him since this betrayal happened. Isang mahabang taon na po akong umiiyak at nagta try kaming mai- ayos ang lahat. Hindi na po namin maayos pa ang relationship namin, maraming away, pag layas, pagsasakitan kahit po mga anak naming affected na rin at traumatic na sa nangyayari sa bahay. Paano ako makakalimot, makaka move on? My husband was my first boyfriend, since I got pregnant with our first child I didn’t not work until now (more than 11 yrs). I devoted all my life and time to my husband and my kids. How can I move on? All because of that Regina, who ruined the 18 years of my happy life with the man I gave it all. Madalas po kaming nagcommunicate ni Allan. Para ma monitor sila, akala po namin from the moment na we found out na namin tong crazy stupid fantasy nila titigilan na nila. Nagtatawagan pa rin po sila, kaya nakuha ko po ang phone number ng work ni Regina dahil nakita ko sa call log ng asawa ko. Mahirap na po magtiwala sa kanila as they always say they ended up but still continuously communicating behind our back. Malaking damages ang nagawa nito sa family namin. Nalaman ng buong family at maraming naging affected, nastress, tumaas ang blood pressure at na hospital. Sobrang sakit po para sakin lahat ng ginawa nila. Si Regina po bilang isang babae, asawa at ina, hindi nya po ba naisip man lang lahat ng gulong pinasok nya bago sya pumatol sa asawa ko, pra sa isang may asawang tao? Napakabait ni Allan ewan ko bakit nya pa nagawang lokohin ito? Kung matinong babae sya, na nahuli na ng asawa ng ilang beses dapat sana dun pa lang nag isip na nya ang mga consequences ng ginagawa nila at tigilan ang kalokohang ginagawa nila. Talaga pong malandi ang mga mistress. Mga KABIT DAPAT NASUSUNOG SA IMPYERNO. Para po sa na wala kong normal na buhay, para sa pag iwan saming magi ina ng asawa ko, para sa pag sira nya sa isang masayang pamilya, para sa pagsira nya na makasama ng mga anak ko ang daddy nila at para sa lahat ng sakit, sama ng loob, sa mga luhang ibinuhos ko at hindi ko alam hanggang kelan mawawala ang sakit na ginawa nila sa pagpatol nila sa isa’t isa. Ito lang po naisip ko, ang iparating sanyo kung anong KATAKSILAN ang ginawa ni Regina sa asawa nya, sa anak nya, sakin at sa pamilya ko. Sana naman po para bilang magulang kayo ni Regina dyan, maging tulay kayo para mabigyan sila ng tamang advices, moral support lalo na po si Allan, a very poor man with a kind forgiving heart. He is hiding everything for himself, protecting the wife and family. Sana po hindi nyo i-pagwalang bahala ito. I’m seeking for help and ways to ease all the pain. I’m longing for peace of mind so I could move on with my life. Enclosed are some proof that me and Allan have communication on txting and phone calls. Allan’s contact no. 916-548-6699 Regina’s work at Emerald Garden Nursing Center 6821 24th Street, Sacramento, CA 916-391-6011
Posted on: Fri, 23 Aug 2013 20:33:14 +0000
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