#NUTSHELL – May 5th — COUPLES CONNECTION – Proverbs 28:13: News Flash!!! There is the possibility and probability that we, you and me, could be wrong. A lot of people find this sentence difficult if not impossible to say: “I’m wrong – you may be right.” Practice saying it by yourself if necessary and then be able to say it when it fits into a disagreement or discussion. When we honestly own up to knowing that we’re wrong and the other person is right, our conversation will improve and deepen our relationship with our spouse; and when it is appropriate, always ask for forgiveness. Sometimes you will have to admit you’re wrong in the face of your spouse’s criticism and this is never easy. It can also be tricky, be sure that you never play the “I know it’s all my fault” game with your mate. It is easy to use the line, “It’s all my fault” as a means of controlling your mate. The idea is that you get your mate feeling apologetic and saying, “Well, I suppose it’s partially my fault too…” If you are really at fault, then be willing to admit it. Saying something like, “You know, I do think that I am to blame here. I’m sorry that I said that, I hurt you. What can I do now to help or make up for this?” Some verses that help, “If you refuse criticism you will end in poverty and disgrace; if you accept criticism you are on the road to fame” (Proverbs 13:18). It is a badge of honor to accept valid criticism (Proverbs 25:12). “To keep your marriage brimming with love in the loving cup. When you’re wrong admit it, when you’re right shut up.” (Ogden Nash) “Most important of all, continue to show deep love for each other, for love makes up for many of your faults” (1 Peter 4:8).
Posted on: Mon, 05 May 2014 11:01:20 +0000
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