Narrated Abu Huraira: Allahs Apostle said, The woman is like a rib; if you try to straighten her, she will break. So if you want to get benefit from her, do so while she still has some crookedness. Can you imagine our world if all women, despite their crooked nature tried to straighten out their curves, or tried to change their nature. How many women are, in fact, quite broken as a result of this attempt? That crookedness doesnt imply something wrong, just as we know our actual and literal physical ribs arent wrong for their shape, form, and angles. Allah is our Creator! We women must honor what makes us different than men, what makes us unique. It is our soft hearts, our extra worrying, compassion, and desire to beautify that brings about beauty, comfort, love, and home into the world. It is that same crooked nature which creates lifes most diligent students - women who are always wanting to learn, grow, repair, prevent, and heal. The fabric of our families, communities, dare I say our world, would fall apart, its beauty and luster lost, if women stopped being who they are, listening to their hearts, their gut instincts, and their dreams of what could be. If you are in pain - look to that rib and see that you arent trying to straighten it out. Like this one Muslim brother says A women is created by the crooked rib of a man and its found near the heart and the function of that rib is to protect the heart from diseases and if it were straight it would cause infections to penetrate the heart we hold a special place so take your place.
Posted on: Tue, 04 Mar 2014 10:54:09 +0000
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