OK LISTEN UP LADIES Why is it that when you are in a bad mood, you transfer your aggression to your man? You dont let peace reign in that relationship because you are in a bad mood. You shout at him, quarrel with him, keep malice with him, find fault against him, avoid his phonecalls, some even go cheating on him......all because you are in a bad mood. Excuse me, even if he is the one that cause the bad mood, can you please talk to him about it and let him know that what he did hurts you. This will pave way for the settlement and restoration of happiness and peace between you two rather than keep malice with him or cheat on him? I also hear that some ladies do something more stupid by carrying the matter to their friends who are not even in a relationship. You dont carry your relationship problems to your single friends who are not in a relationship, that is being foolish. Take your relationship problems to someone who is having the kind of relationship you admire and to your sisters who are hooked/married or married sisters in your religious fellowship or your mother. Also some ladies expects their men to be mind readers. You expect him to just read your mind and know that you are angry with him. How can he know when you dont talk? Is he a witch? If he makes you angry or provoke you, open your mouth and talk. Let effective communication be your weapon always. Stop storing the matter in your mind and expect him to read your mind and guess why you are angry. Please be wise to use effective communication in your relationships and not foolish drastic measures. Hope the ladies are taking notes.
Posted on: Mon, 11 Aug 2014 10:05:37 +0000
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