Often times when people are hurt or upset they lash out and might say mean things that arent really part of their character and may not really express their true feelings on a subject because they are looking for the easiest path to hurt those they feel wronged by. Just keep that in mind and ask yourself if someones behavior is disposition or situational before you have a similar knee jerk reaction to their overreaction thus causing a feed back loop of negativity. Often when we get mad or upset at someone else it is our perception or misconception that has upset us and not the original intent of the person who offended us. And sometimes people are just jerks, but being a jerk is usually some kind of defense mechanism or transference of some kind of hurt in their lives. This isnt directed toward anyone or any situation, just an observation and opinion.
Posted on: Sun, 14 Sep 2014 13:17:33 +0000