(((Play Fair))) Dont let anger rule in your house. It will become a vicious circle. Truth will become lies and lies will become truth. Anger tears down both parties and creates an unsolvable atmosphere. If you are seeking to keep your marriage afloat, forsake anger and acts of malice. These things go against the goal you are aiming for. In order to fix problems we have to create that kind of atmosphere. We must participate in making things better not just talking it! Be understanding towards your mate because there will come a time when its your turn to want to be understood. What if God decided to get our attention by doing to us what we do to him...would that make him God or man? Basically all Im saying is dont break your character for moment of revenge, thats YOUR character on the line not your mates. Treat your spouse how you want to be treated. Remember whatever your mate flaws are God has designed a deliverance for THEM... That thing was not designed for you. In the end it may make them a better spouse but if you do it there are no guarantees you will survive. We all have our own battles. I cant fight yours and you cant fight mines. Why add on more trouble by seeking revenge and getting in the way of your mates deliverance, its a recipe for disaster. Some look at marriage as a dirty game and it can be just that, if you make it that way. Good news is we can make it work if we operate with love & understanding.....play fair!
Posted on: Sun, 03 Nov 2013 14:26:26 +0000