Pro Action ~ “Being Early” As we gain insight into our own psyches, we will have more awareness about the cycles that move through our emotions. This can be a wonderful tool to implement positive change. When we direct our awareness into our own feelings we are able to intercept negative responses and “Be early” so as to utilize our natural indicators for growth. We don’t have to resist our frustrations, anxieties, fears, and doubts. We just have to understand what they are telling us that we need. In fact by resisting we become unaware of what real change may occur through these deeply rooted emotions. There are often many variables that feed into our reactions, and many are born from a very early age. Compassion and understanding is what our deepest self wants to heal the ego’s protection device of Separation Projection. Resistance to the alarms only validates the feeling of separation. At the first sign of resistance, before it gets highly stimulated, is the best time to lay the ground work for a positive outcome. This is when the Separation Projection is typically applied and then the momentum of the Law of Attraction follows. Once we are in the eye of the storm is much more difficult to have the awareness we need to come back to center. Being early has many advantages. Relationships offer us a “12 foot mirror” into our reactive cycles. We will have these cycles if we are alone or together with another, though witnessing its effects on others amplifies the reverberation of our actions and reactions. Some steps to take when one knows one is sensitive, frightened, unstable, or anxious would be first to allow one’s self to be vulnerable. Our society does not encourage this essential, nurturing, self-love when weakened. It promotes terms like “Cowboy up” or “Don’t let ‘em see you sweat.” This only builds the Separation Projection and feeds the fears and doubts that are designed to point us to Love. We can let others know we are in a phase of healing or transition and that this can be an unstable time. When we share intimately with those around us, in a loving nonreactive way we can begin to build what I call “A soft place to fall.” Expanding the nurturing into our relationships and honoring our deepest desires to be connected. Asking for understanding, promotes understanding of our own developing nature. Then we can use the Law of Attraction in its most positive form, increasing the momentum of what we naturally want; to love and be loved. This also sets the stage for our loved ones to do the same, allowing their own weaknesses “A soft place to fall.” What a wonderful gift to give an intimate relationship? Complete acceptance of one another’s true feelings. We can also reconnect with what feels good to us naturally. Taking time, even two minutes, to slow our pace, and breathe into our thoughts the remembrance of all that is. Often we pinhole fears into one lump sum of what doesn’t feel good, forgetting that there is so much more to consider. Last week while sharing and exploring a deep rooted fear I was able to see how Separation Projection created an image of life that was hopelessly skew. Unmindfully allowing fear as our “Practice,” creates paradigms that do not consider all the factors. And typically what it leaves out is the best part. It is the positive aspects that fear eliminates. In order to have a clear vision of what we are looking at we must take in all the variables. This is nearly impossible when we are activated in protection. The next thing is to envision the growth that this fear presents to you. Wayne Dyer calls this seeing from the end. While still quiet and mindful, and recognizing our fear, we can see the opposite of what we don’t want, into The Evolved Self that we do want; Confidence, Openness, Acceptance, Pro Action, compassion and most of all Love. The last of the steps might be to allow time to transition, to remove any self-judgment of where we are right here right now. There is a divinity to our cycles, when we allow them. Just as in Nature, to all things a Season. Often we want to push the process and hurry through it. It is understandable that we want to get back to what feels good, though we often look for the instant gratification of relief. This is temporary and does not allow the wisdom we need to inspire a permanent change. It keeps us in the cycle and repeats until we can allow the healing that the cycle promotes. To summarize, here are the steps of positive advancement through our anxieties and fears • Recognizing fear. Being Early • Allowing vulnerability • Sharing how you feel • Taking into consideration all the elements • Seeing into an evolved perspective • Allowing the process the time and space it needs We can all benefit and grow through the changing cycles of life. We can support and love each other through them and most importantly establish an intimate relationship within ourselves; at last allowing the nurturing that our denial and resistance blocked. Living from a perspective of loving acceptance for ourselves and those around us creates the world we know in our hearts to be real and offers lasting peace during life’s storms and challenges. Peace, Compassion, Wisdom ~M~
Posted on: Wed, 18 Sep 2013 15:50:42 +0000
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