Quit allowing people to influence decisions that affect your life. They do not have to live with your choices so their advice is always one sided and unnecessary. Until someone has walked in your shoes they are simply a bystander watching from the outside, oblivious to your feelings and needs. It took me a long time to grasp this concept. If I had kept living for other’s wants, assumptions and beliefs of me I would be in debt over my head, in uncomfortable relationships and working just to pay bills instead of doing what I love. Truth is, you are never 100% sure that someone truly wants what is best for you but you can always be 100% sure that YOU want at is best for YOU. Let them frown at your choices, hate on your goals, speak negatively about who you love, your profession, your friend, your children etc. They do not understand your life, they are not living your circumstances, they do NOT reside in your home, and therefore they should not have the front seat or wheel to the life you lead. This ride is your own, take control and OWN IT! - AJT
Posted on: Fri, 12 Jul 2013 13:39:35 +0000
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