REASONS YOU ARE INTO A RELATION SHIP God made us for connection and that is why He connected Eve with Adam. Moreso, He gave himself as a connection to us Through Christ Jesus. To be a healthy human being, you require healthy relationships in your life. The kind of people you associate with will rather bring out the best or worse in you, choose your friends very carefully because life is a choice, dont let anybody force an unwanted friendship on you. Proximity is no license for access and access is the greatest gift you can give to anybody but mind whom you give it to because, someone stays close to you, grew up in the same neighborhood with you, attended the same school with you dosent give them the right to have access to you if they are not the kind of people you want in your world. Like do attracts like, your friends mirror you therefore move with people who are going in the same direction with you, people who share common interests and values it, go to where you are celebrated and not where you are tolerated because you must learn to initiate friendships with people you like or want to know, show genuine interest in people. Your circle of friends determine to a large extent of what you become in life so, search for quality people who can be positive influences on, look for men and women who are succesful in their chosen fields of endeavour and do all it takes to get them into your circle of influence. Every friendship must have a purpose, likewise a relationship must have a focus, Avoid a purposeless association. There are three levels of relationships you need to cultivate in order to live a balanced life: (A) someone to look up to; these are your mentors or role models. (B) someone that looks up to you; those you guided and supported with your experience that is your protege. (C) someone who is your contemporary; these are people you do things at the same time. Your competitors. You ought to have mentors in business, career, marriage etc. People you respect, who have the time to listen to and counsel you. To attract quality people into your life, you must learn to develop an agreable and pleasing personality, be fun to be with, easy to get along with. A contentious and argumentative disposition will repell people from you faster than any other weekness you may possess. Contribute positively to the lives of your friends both male and female, treat each person with consideration, care and courtesy(Ipeter 3vrs8-9) you can begin to attract people into your life by improving your people skills, learn to smile when you meet people because it tells them you are glad to see them. Apologize when you are wrong, learn to use the universal neutralizer of negative emotions like I am sorry, please, forgive me if you are a very critical person, learn to see the positive in people and situations, if you want to criticize, correct or rebuke anybody, do it privately, never in public, make people feel good whenever they are around you. Finally, become a solution provider, a problem solver, a peacemaker, above all, be a woman and a man of intergrity, being associated with truth will draw more quality people into your life than any other positive trait you may possess. Happy new week and remain blessed. Angelica From Divine.
Posted on: Mon, 08 Sep 2014 09:39:59 +0000
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