***Reader Needs Advice*** NO BASHING!!! I need help! Im loosing my mind trying to figure this out. About 3 yrs ago my husband had an affair. I found out but yet it continued for several months. That is in the past and I have dealt with that. I Tried to rebuild my marriage. We have two children together. At the time my youngest was only 1. Over time he got angry and at times slightly violent. I believe this was due to his guilt of what he did and not being good at dealing with emotions. I finally moved out a year ago. Everything was good. I was happy. In November last year I found out he was seeing another married woman from work who was leaving her husband. This started shortly after I left. I freaked out on him. Told him his morals disgusted me. It was embarrassing for me yet again. I work in the office for the company he worked for. His affair was also with a married woman he worked with. After that he made a complete 180. Wants to try and make this work again. Turned into the man I always wanted him to be. Is very open, shares his feelings, communicates more. Showers me with love and affection. I want to be able to accept him and try and move back with him. I enjoy his company. Enjoy the family time. Everything is good. We are still living apart. Unfortunately he lost his job and now has a new one making a lot less. This has put a financial burden on me with the kids. He can no longer help with insurance or daycare and I can no longer afford my rent and bills. I have been considering moving back in. Problem is my lease is now up and I feel like Im being forced to move back so I can afford to survive. In my eyes he truly has changed but as much as I want this to work I just dont feel a strong romantic connection with him anymore. Obviously he caused me a lot of pain. I built up a lot of walls. I thought over time they would start to come down and I could fall back in love with him. I just dont know that I will. I still love him always will. Im having a hard time walking away from the opportunity to try and have a happy family again but I am not sure I can commit to him again. We are still married I never filed the divorce papers. We both saw other people while we were separated. Just looking for some advice. This is a huge decision either way. I need to either give it one last try or walk away and not drag this out any longer. Help!!
Posted on: Sat, 10 May 2014 01:53:26 +0000
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