***Reader Needs Advice*** NO BASHING!!! This gonna be a LONG storie but please help me....so i been with this guy for almost 5 years he is my high school sweet heart. we been through alot he been in jail 2 times and been locked up when we was in high school. all of it has been really hard he cheated on me with my best friend the girl who got us together after that had happen we thought we should break up. we wasnt together for almost 5months when we ran into each other at a party we hooked back up and started seeing each other trying to work things out at this time we wasnt together n i found out that he was seeing someone else (after he told me i cant talk to any of the guys i was talking to) but i found him with her one day when i went over to his house to see him befor i had to go to work. i told him the night befor i would be stoping by befor i went to work. the door was unlocked so i thought he was waiting for me so i walked in like i have so many tims n i went to his bedroom door n it was locked so i nocked n he comes out n her th door lock behind him so im like wats going on who is in there and he gose oh no body so i try to open the door n he like you have to leave so w.e you know what happen next we get in to this big fight he chokes me and i thro a 2 by 4 thru the window. cops come and what not. after that we didnt talk for almost 2 or 3 months later he writes me out of no where asking me to forgive him and take him bak i did we worked things out and everything was good again i had his fb pw he had mine uk we started over then mayb a year later he gets locked up n i could deal with it cuz my mom was sick and just getting out of jail her self and i couldn be there for him like i wanted to so we broke up after he got out once again we ran into each other cuz his sister moved in right next to me we talked started txting everyday n for the 1st time we hung out i stayed at his sisters house and went thru his phone idk why i did but i did n found out he had a gf i asked him bout it and he said they are breaking up cuz she dont live in our town anymore and blabla w.e he broke up with her n we worked everything out n a few months later we started dating again. at this time my mom was in th half way house so i was still living with my sister she and i got into a fight and she kicked me out i went to go and live with him 2months later my mom came and stayd with my sister n she made me go back home cuz i wasn 18 yet and i had a po and wat not. my mom didn like my bf and she fought with me bout him and with him all the time she even told my po she didn want me around him and what ever. so i had to stop seeing him and he meant someone after that and they where dating and it really hurt cuz i didn want 2 break up with him but i couldnt ask him not to see anyone. so i just left it alone then 2 months b4 my 18th birthday i was out with some friends drinkin and when i got home i txted him telling him how much i missed him n told him why i had to break it off with him n i wish i culd have him back in my life. he told me he missed me to and how loved me still and what not i passed out and forgot i txted him and then 3 or 4 days later he told me he broke it off with the other girl and told her how he knew he needed me and w.e so we started talkin once again and at this time we both didn want to date we just want to be friends and see if it could work cuz befor we faught all the time about everything. cuz i just couldnt get over the hurt and pain from the bs that happen 2 years ago. one time he tells me hey can you talk to his ex cuz she wont stop txting me she wants to b friends still and blabla so i told her to leave him alone and w.e im known to be a fighter so she backed off for a couple months then one time i had his phone playing a game and she txted him the name came up as nun of ur buz so im lyk mmm ur telling me u want to b with me and w.e but u still talkin to sum1 so i acted like i was him and talked toher got her to come over to his sisters place and i kicked her ass and she left n i went up stars n yelled at him n he got me to stay and w.e well she called the cops and he was put in jail cuz he had a warren out for him and he got locked up for almost 3months i was a dumb ass and was there for him n one day he calls me n tells me he got a letter from this b*tch telling him how she dosnt blame him for me hitting her and how she wants him bak well im like write bak n tell her to leave u alone or im gone n he did he got out and mayb a week after he got out she txted him telling him she needs to tlak to him has all his friends tellin him to talk to her n he wont cuz i wont stay if he keeps talkin to her well i had this bad feeling. so i told him k talk to her n still he wouldnt so mayb a week after that she txted him and tells him she is having his baby and wat not i had his phone so i found out b4 he did n went into our room n jus sat there n cried he came in asked me wat was wrong n i showed him the txt he tells me over n over how it cant be his cuz he never busted in her n how he hasnt slept with her for almost 6 or 7 months n alot of bs. there was ppl saying they fukd on my bday the weekend b4 he got lcoked up...so i ask him to tell me th truth and he did n w.e she was having his baby cuz she showed him a pic of it n sent a pic of the test n wat th doc said n w.e. he bagged me to stay n really i couldn be mad cuz at that time they did stuff we wasnt together so i stayed and we got ready for this baby to come she wanted money from him to take care of it and me n him talked bout it n no he didnt want that he want th child so we try to talk to her to giving us the baby and she could go and do her thing. she wasnt gana have that n really i dont blame her cuz i wouldnt either but she didn want me apart of the babys life she just made it really hard for me and him. she wanted to be his friend n he said no we can be cool just for th baby no hanging out or anything.. he told her that everytime she would txt him. then one day she asked him again so they could talk he asked me and i said sure if its about the baby go ahead. (trusting him) well he came home mad as could be and she told him that if im apart of his life n she cant be then the baby wont be...that made me pissed i wanted to kick her ass so bad but uk she was havin a baby so i txted her layed it out how she is lucky he wants to b apart of the babys life not most guys want to and if thats how she feels i wont have a part of the babys life ill leave when he has the baby around but to let him see the child. w.e she never wrote back then idk she must of been lyk 5 or 6 months now and he been trying to go to doc appt tryin to b part of the baby and she wouldnt write back or call him back so i txted her friend who is my gud friend 2 and asked him how she was doing for my bf so he could know she was ok n the baby was ok..my friend tells me she isnt and hasnt told any of her friends or family she was n she been out drinking n parting and all this bs so i fronted her bout it n a week after that he gets a call from one of his friends asked if he talked to her at all and he said no why i guess she lost the baby and i gues she told his dad like month ago she lost it n wanted to tell him by her self.. so we all think she was lieing but my point to that is that i stayed there and helped n loved him n try to make it work with this now i have my own place and he is living with me n we are trying to have a baby. we really dont have alot of money but we are making it and that has alot of stress on him n me so we been fighting alot so one night he calls me im at my moms helping her move into her new place and he tells me he is going out i said ok well are you going to be coming to my place or ur dads n he says well ima pass out at my friends house i said ok. well i get home and one of my friends (guy) is sitting on my steps he asked me if he could chill until his sister got off of work at 10 im like sure idc well 2am comes around and his sister isnt home yet and im like well im tired ima go to bed just lock my doors wen you leave. he passed out and my man came home and freaked out on me and broke into my house 2 times i called his dad to come and get him he did and then around 6am he breaks in again and beat me. his friend came and got him. i know i should leave him alone but that was th 1st time he has ever hit me or even raised a hand to me but i want him back in my life i love him i didn do anything wrong i thought we was pass the hole no trust thing so i didn even think bout it the guy was sleeping on my couch and i was in my room. but he is so mad at me and he wont talk to me. idk how to get him to listen to me and work things out. i think its so unfair for him to be acting this way after all the shit i had to deal with. he wont even hear me out and i always let him tell me his side of the storie. so my ? for you guys are how do i get him to see i wasnt doing wrong and he means the world to me? all my family and friends think i should leave him now cuz he put his hands on me but they dont us lyk they think they do. and that guy whos stayed the night is to scared to talk to him. so please help me i dont want to lose the love of my life. please dont hate either. im really just asking for help at this low point in my life.
Posted on: Wed, 30 Oct 2013 03:34:05 +0000
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