SHE BLAMED POVERTY TO HAVE RUINED HER FROM HAVING HER DREAM MARRIAGE SERIES 39! Prepared by Pastor Charles Chanda: Pretoria, South Africa. OUR SISTER WISHED SHE WOULD HAVE STUCK TO HER DREAM OF NOT HANDING OVER THE FATHERHOOD OF HER OFFSPRINGS TO A BOYFRIEND BUT TO A HUSBAND Recap from series 38 She looked for a small room and moved out of campus without telling anyone. She had managed to buy a bed and a few things. She went back to the village to pick the children and coincidentally the big man, his wife and their twins had also planned to visit the village. They arrived after her and the mother even suspected that they came together. TODAY’S EPISODE! Our sister saw the big man walking towards the house carrying one of the twins and his wife carrying the other twins and she could not hold her tears. She went back into the house and began to weep. She could not just stand the fact that this man who was responsible for her pregnancy has never held those children in his hands and those babies have never called anyone dad and yet they had a father. She saw him taking the role of a good husband and responsible father for his home and on the side she was now stuck. She refused to come out of the house to meet the visitors. The big man then went to the car and removed the things they had brought for the children. They decided to go back and the wife of the big man vowed never to come back again as this was embarrassing. The mother came into the house to call her but she refused and openly stated that she did not want to see those two people anywhere near her. Her mother told her that nothing will ever change with regard to the fact that man was the father of her children. She further told her that depriving those innocent children of the support they deserved from their father because of pride and anger was a mark of wickedness and if those children are lost in the world, punishment from God cannot be avoided. The sister took the twins with her and left the village the following day together with the girl she had arranged with a while ago. It was a challenge for our sister as she had not bonded with those children. The twins were closer to the grandmother than our sister their mother. She had requested for a short leave from work and this enabled her to baby seat and help the little girl from the village. Our sister noticed that this was going to be a big challenge and she now decided to complicate the life of the youth pastor. She was wishing she should have waited for marriage than to complicate her life. She was having a tough time with the twins. The youth pastor had got married to that same girl whose mother worked at the hotel and she had told her of the affair he had with our sister. The best friend to the wife of the youth pastor was a cousin to the friend of our sister in the campus who used to go out with the big man. Information had leaked out that our sister was made pregnant by the big man. You know how ladies chat and how no secret can be kept from them. The wife of the youth pastor passed on the information to the husband and this was hard for him. He could not believe that our sister was cheating on him and concluded that it could be the reason why she has never bothered to contact him since. That same week our sister phoned the youth pastor and told him that he must come and see his children. The youth pastor did not want to be arrogant as a result of the information he had received. Our sister was not aware that the youth pastor was married. They agreed on a day when he would visit and our sister prepared the small house including the bedroom. She cooked nice food for the youth pastor and her go was that he must also attend to her. Our sister saw a very strange car coming near the house and there came out the youth pastor with a beautiful lady. Our sister looked confused and could not believe what she was seeing. LESSON WE MUST NOT FORGET Every husband is expected to be a responsible father and you should not expect a boyfriend to be a responsible father because he is not a husband. God only gives grace to husband to be good fathers. A father who is not there 24/7 for the child will find it very difficult to be a responsible father. Make up your minds ladies never to hand over the fatherhood of your off springs to men who will never be there for you 24/7. Money will never make a good father so is a car. The fact that a person has a car does not mean he will be a good father. TO BE CONTINUED
Posted on: Thu, 20 Nov 2014 04:38:41 +0000
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