SIGH! Zane, I.have emailed u before but i really need ur help.. I am currently 6 months pregnant working and in.my.last semester of nursing school.. My problem is my bf i think is using me.. I have been taking care for all of 5 years we been together now all.of a sudden he gets a little job n I ask for 20 dollars to.get my hair done n.he.says he wants to.keep money in his.pocket he aint trying to.go.broke.. like wtf... then.what makes it bad is i allowed hos.mother to live.with us because her son is incarcated n.sentenced to.13 years n she.can take.care of her son while he is.locked up being that he.is.only.18.. but whenever i need something its always an excuse.. I.have been really depressed.lately. it has alot to do with my son being removed because of.the DV in my house. So now dyfs says I have to move.in order to.get my son from his dad. I have given section 8 my 60 day notice n have decided to do a move.in the middle of the day while everyone is at work, but Zane im.just so.down.. please post to facebook.please MY RESPONSE: Darling, there are no options here. Being that you said that you have been with this man for five years and you had your son removed by DYFS because of domestic violence, twenty dollars to get your hair done should be the least of your concerns. Baby girl, you are carrying a child and do you not realize that they will take that baby as well? Are they even aware that you are pregnant? Let me say this: I am proud of you for making the decision to move out. Let them fend for themselves. If they both go homeless, that is on two grown-ass people who never should have been living off of you in the first damn place. And I am assuming that you might even lose your Section 8 if they find that out. When you move, it needs to be a clean break but stop laying down with that bastard today. He beats you, lives off you, and even moved Momma in? Was that tramp of a mother holding you down while he beat on you? Has he hit you since you got pregnant? Oh, hell no. I realize that something made you feel like this is normal but it is not. Once you have that baby and get your other son back, never doubt your decisions and also ask for some counseling as well. It will help you and look good on your record because it will show that you are committed not to make the same mistakes again. Never put a man before your child. I do not give a damn who he is. Good luck.
Posted on: Sat, 10 Aug 2013 20:02:37 +0000
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