Series 4 Tonic For Healthy Relationships- The Right Use of The Tongue. In the last series, we looked at Understanding and Tolerance and their relevance in building a healthy relationship. It was noted that, any relationship where Tolerance is not allowed, there will always be TROUBLE. Also, Tolerance was said to be a virtue that allows us to acomodate people, relate wit them and make lasting impact in their lives. On dis note, I pray for every relationship going thru hardships, dificulties and troubles as a result of the absence of Tolerance, that, God will release d grace of Tolerance upon d parties involved in Jesus name! In todays series, I shall be emphaasizing on the right use of our tongues as another tonic needed for healthy relatnshp. The tongue is an organ in our bodies that enables us to comunicate effectively. It helps us in vocalisin or making verbal our thoughts in words. Words however, possess both creativ and destuctive power. No relatnshp can survive without words(comunicatn). Therefore, all effort must be made to manage our tongues in other to produce creative words that will allow peace and healthy relatnshps. Prov. 18v20,21 says A mans belly shall be satisfied with the fruit of his mouth; and with the increase of his lips shall he be filled. Death and life are in d power of d tongue and they that love it(use it well) shall eat the fruit thereof. D above words of wisdom made it clear that d choice to keep a healthy relatnship lies in every individuals hand. It was definately stated dat d use of d tongue produces only 2 fruits; Death and Life! That means u can either kill or keep alive any relatnshp ur involved with dependin on how u choose to exercise d tongue power! Segun and Toyin are friends. They love each other and hope one day to be maried as husband and wife. Neverdles, dey hav dis to share as one of their experiences regarding our subject mata; the right use of d tongue. On a faithful day, Toyin visited Segun after they hav seen each other for a while. She was so excited wen she saw him. They both decided to make a jorney to somwhr but on their returne, a misunderstandin crept into der mist. Fortunately, they were able to giv room to talk d issue off. Accordin to segun, he said Toyins eyes were full of tears. While dey sat to settle d misunderstandin, he was quiet for a while and in atempt to end d silence he said am so sorry, u knw am neither perfect nor comlete without u. That is d reason I hav u, so that u can be my perfection and make me complete. I am very sorry 4 hurtin u! While he was saying all dat, Toyin was moved to tears. To cut d story short, dey were able to resolve d issue and restore health to their relatnshp. This implies dat, we all must learn to say sorry, if dat can help restore peace and joy into our relatnshp. Dont be too big to say sorry. It doesnt mata whos at fault, a soft simple sorry can close d crack to collapse in ur relatnshp! Let ur tongue speak peace! Always use it to make ur partner happy! Till we meet again nxt week, be wise and use ur tongue righly!
Posted on: Mon, 25 Nov 2013 09:07:50 +0000
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