Signs you need deliverance from Arrested Development 1. Victimization- Everything that you lack in life, or everything wrong with you, would somehow be different, if someone else, wouldve done or not done something. 2. Inability to Handle Responsibility- You routinely cave in, midpoint or before the perfect completion of a task, and rely on begging for superiors or peers to be patient or understanding for your lack of productivity. 3. Constant Emotional Outbreaks- A lack of self control, is routine in those that are bound with arrested development. They are impulsive, emotional, irrational, and take little time to place Biblical restraint on feelings. 4. Routinely Goal Setting- The need to constantly set more goals, is proof, that perhaps the last set of goals for the same area have gone without completion. New vision, every month is only needful for those who cant be faithful, integral to, or committed to fulfilling vision and taking already given benchmarks, to the next place. 5. Inability to handle and USE criticism- Criticism, rebuke or accountability is too much to handle. Criticism is seen as rejection, abuse, or ones perspective and has NO merit to your circumstance. Arrested development leaves no room for the USE of rebuke. 6.Inability to manage stress- Stress management is apart of maturity. If all stress makes you not capable of maintaining responsibility or expectations. 7.Selfishness- The OVER protection of personal space, personal time, personal everything. Too much of self is never of value for anything kingdom. This must be balanced. 8. Private- Refusal to allow alternate eyes into the reality of your life, feelings, patterns, hobbies, behaviors or cycles. Those that are secretive have a lot to hide, or are embarrassed about the reality of their life. 9.Not faithful to schedule- Immature people make schedules as they go along. They are routinely idle, without work, non compliant with deadlines and largely ignorant of season. Relaxing is a priority while they remain fruitless, or the fruit they do see is mainly internal and only visible by the one who has the issue. 10. A DESIRE to fit in, be understood and for pity- Arrested development wants life, people, superiors, circumstances, to ACCOMMODATE them. If its not ideal, they cant work or make it happen. 11. Inability to Concentrate or Short Attention Span- While projects, objectives and goals, suffer, a person with arrested development becomes easily bored with routine, EVEN if the routine is producing long term results and fruit. Theres a difference in something being old and something being left incomplete. Do you need to grow up?
Posted on: Thu, 16 Jan 2014 18:08:29 +0000
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