Single Ladies: Do These Things, If You Really Want To Get Married If you as a lady is ready and ripe for marriage and it seems you are not connecting with the right man,you may need to look inwards and make some changes in your life.the only permanenr thing in life is change. Take a look at your lifestyle; there may be an area in which you need to effect some changes if you want to attract the right kind of man for you and make the relationship work. (1) Change your apprarance- people see who you are before they hear what you have to say. The clothes you wear play a major role in attracting poeplae into your life. Men see you before they hear what you have to say. If you are in the habit of wearing skimpy, revealing, tight, glittery or mini clothing on any and every occasion, youneed to change your wardrobe. These clothes in themselves may not be a problem if you wear them for the appropriate occasion and in the right environment. Your clothes howeever may become a distraction and undermine your values, conveying the wrong message to people around you. There are clothes designed to be worn in the home environment alone. Such clothes should not be worn out. Dresses that should be worn only for parties should not be worn casually, for school, to the office or for business. O ln the other hand,your dressing may just be too old fashioned for any man to see through to your beauty. Change it. Invest in a new wadrobe. If you dont know which clothes to buy, ask a fashion consultant.. (2) CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE A bad attitude is a turn off no matter hor pretty, Uccessful, educated or rich you may be. This may be the reason why the men in your life come and go. But the good news is thst, Your character can be refined. You can become a more positive and exciting person to be around by reading books and associating with positive people. (3) CHANGE YOUR FRIENDS. Are all your friends single,unattached and unmarried? Then you need to change some of them. Get close to ladies who have relationship that are going somewhere or you can even get ckose to married ladies. The onlyal advice you can get from a single lady is how to remain single. A married woman on the other hand can give you advice on how to relate with a man you are interested with in and how to solve some of your relationship problems. (4) CHANGE YOUR JOB. Does your job description include traveling all year round, never giving you enough time eo settle down and develop a relationship with a man? Does your job give you enough time to socialize and spend time with the people you love? If it doesnt, start thinking of another job of you really want to get married. You should create enough time eo spend with the man who is interested in you. How can you develope a relationship if you are never there?.....to be continue (5) CHANGE YOUR BOYFRIEND. You are not married. The man whos has been dating uou has not preoosed to you. It is time you looked for someone else. You may think that where will you find anothe guy like him? If he is a time waster or one of the othe unserios tyoes who will never commit to you, dump him now. (6) CHANGE YOUR SOCIAL HABIT. Go out to where you can mix with people. A man wont come and talk to you when you are wacthing a movie or reading a novel in your bedroom. You must become very visible for him to notice and approach you. If you are shy, get close to outgoing ladies who will take you to the right social gatherings where you can connect with the right people. (7) CHANGE YOUR VISION If your vision involves traveling a lot or leeping late hours, tou may need to modify it a bit to help you connect mare easily with the right man for you. If you are not in a relationship, it may be very easy for you to live that way,but for a relationship to succed, it requires time and commitment from you. If you are never there, how can the relationship work out? You dont have to choose between a career and a relationship; you can modify your dream in such a way that you have time for your life to flourish and succeed.
Posted on: Thu, 18 Dec 2014 16:14:24 +0000
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