So since I share so many other things with my FB loves. I will share this story. There was a guy I had met after cable guy. Remember, cable guy...yeah I was really feeling him. But it just didnt blossom the way it needed to. Anyhow, new guy would call or text me often. He had asked me out, but it was on a Monday. It was his off day, but Ive been putting in OT at work. So he and I never got a chance to hang out. And I will tell yall why. We were conversing one day and he said , yeah I usually dont date women with kids or thats on the big side. But Im trying to stop looking on the outside. You seem cool. You could work out. You did say you working out, right Depending on who you talk to, being a bigger woman with a kid makes you not marketable. And its assumed when youre bigger, you have low self esteem. I feel beautiful each and every day though. Even when my hair doesnt look the way I want it to. Even when I have another pimple on my face arent almost 30. And my son? Oh, its no secret how crazy I am about him. A man wouldnt be doing me any favors at all. Long story short, I told him Im glad he spoke whats in his heart. Because Im not the woman he really desires. He would believe I would just be a convenience, until he gets with the woman he really wants. I didnt get mad. Because we all have preferences. And I wont say a real man would handle a woman with gut and a son. Nope But I do know that the man that is for me is going to see all my beauty. And my son may not be his son, but hes going to open his spirit to my son. He will treat my son will kindness. Every day I learn to be happier with myself. Because if I werent, he could have broke my spirit.
Posted on: Tue, 16 Sep 2014 23:38:47 +0000
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