Some people criticize me for always (or almost always) being positive and happy. They say things like, how dare you say that everything happens for the right reason? And you are always just positive because everything always goes your way, dont push that on those of us whos lives are not always going exactly as we plan! You are wrong. Things do not go as planned for me every day. The difference is that I see the beauty in the mysteries and changes in life and know that everything truly does happen for the best reason. If something changes all of my plans, which actually probably happens to me more than anyone who is criticizing me, I dont look at it in a negative way and get pissed off and whine about it on my statuses on facebook (most of the time, no one is perfect). But seriously, why would I? What is that going to change? How is that going to make my new situation any better? It does not change anything in the grand beautiful scheme of this journey we call life. If no one on here can do something that will better my situation, why take my burden to others? Even if someone CAN help me, then the mature thing is to humbly message them privately and ask for advice or help... Not complain to the other 4,999 friends I have on facebook. We are here to make each others lives better. We are here to help one another up. We are here to love. To love. If we slip and let some anger out sometimes that is fine, it is part of life. I will admit I carry that cross myself! But for the most part, lets be positive, and realize that no matter what we are going through and what changes in our plans and lives, we are blessed that it is not significantly worse. Learn to adapt. Just this week I went on a date where my initial plan was, on the spur of the moment, made impossible. I literally made 3 backup plans off the top of my head, all of which failed miserably. However, did I post up a depressing status about it and how my life is now over? No. Why would I? Id be lying. Because of my outlook on life, and how impressive I found this young lady to be, it turned out to be one of the greatest dates I have ever been on. I believe the true colors of a man (or woman) are shown in the moments of hardships in their life, not when everything is going as planned. So, my friends, my life is not any easier than yours. I am faced with hardships and struggles that none of you, even being my friends, will ever know. Why? Because there is no need for you to carry a burden that I dont even carry myself. Everything will work out. Everything IS working out. Lets just love. Just love. Thank you :) Love, Kevin Yungman
Posted on: Mon, 21 Jul 2014 05:57:19 +0000
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