Sometimes by praising someone, one can cause hurt feelings. Thus, while praise is a really important use of the power of speech, it is important to be sensitive about how, when, and with whom it is done. Examples A. Moshe and Chaim are partners in business. You tell Moshe Your partner Chaim is so generous. Last week he lent me $100,000 from the business. This statement is considered avak rechilut, the dust of rechilut, because it can cause Moshe to be upset with his partner for lending so much money without his consent. B. Your wealthy uncle lends you money from time to time. However, when your friend who has a reputation for not paying back loans approaches him, your uncle is hesitant to help him. When your friend confides in you you tell him, I dont know. Im shocked! My uncle is so generous. Whenever I am in need, he always helps me out. Although you mean well, relaying this information can cause your friend to be more upset and hurt by your uncle. (Purity of Speech by C.T. Friedman, Hilchot Rechilut by the Chafetz Chaim) In the merit of this learning may Keren Esther bat Sara, Salomey Hay Serrar bat Keren Esther and Leah Yoheved Hadassa bat Keren Esther each be blessed with complete health, happiness, success, clarity and only revealed good. Create a meaningful day! - Ora
Posted on: Mon, 17 Mar 2014 08:51:53 +0000
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