Strictly For Ladies. Are you single, seriously searching for real/ godly men but, no luck! Only the fake Ebu & Paoooo Guys comes on your way. Have you ever tried below strategies before? If not, try it for 6 months. If you have tried it before; inbox me and well review how you applied it, together. 1) go completely godly. Get lost in the arms of God. If you can do it. There is great reward. 2) improve your politeness & courtesy at every level and environment as we been taken through in social & moral conduct session with lady Olabisi Babatunde for the past two weeks. 3) if youre an African lady, go back to bases. Let go off western culture in your appearance & manners as in the way we been taken through in prof Gbenga Emiloju last week in social & moral conduct session. If you missed it, inbox him for a copy. b) if you are westerners, imbibe the best part of early heritage culture of your ancestors. 4) try act of giving & giving yourself to charity or stewardship/humanity. Not in relationship alone but, at every phase of life. Typical example that can harmonise relationship was treated by Gbadamosi Simi Kate in marriage forum upper week. Giving at any phase of life, is not necessary to be a money. It may be a time, sometimes. Get these tips from my 3 books. Read- 5) what automatically make Rebekah a wife to unknown ordained person. 6) what makes Jacob to be so crazy (humble) to serve Leban another 7yrs bcos of Rachael. (Have you ever deemed your lifestyle as Rachael) 7) what special about these following people to the extent that they have positive account in the bible; Esther, Ruth, Deborah, Sarah, Martha and the rest. Are you near anyone of them, if you have to judge yourself or your best performance. 8) give yourself to charity and ready to add values to the lives of others- just like Sarah, Esther, Joseph in the prison; Caleb,Joshua & David that championed for God. Just like Nehemiah that was disturbed seriously in his thought that gate to the city of God shldnt be desolated. So, he has to make difference for God by adding beauty to the wall of the city of God- Jerusalem. 8) Lastly, improve your positive social relationship. Facebook for an example: A) if you are lady, - dont just send request to real or godly guys, if you got no positive manners or godly attitude to flaunt like Rebekah or Martha or Ruth. - if you are not going to flow at their level with politeness & courtesy - if you know better than him, make your comment in a way to support or encourage him, more. Not like Pharisees or antagonist. No man; both simple & arrogant man, can stand the gut of an antagonist lady. All men like supportive lady. Take note of that. - try to study him deeply, check for his weaknesses or where you can add values to his life. Dont ask him before you find your way to the vacant part of his life. When add the values, do it religiously. Not like one in a booker shop (gambling). - dont seduce him to flirt with you. Let it come naturally. - never compel him to give you his word for dating. You will scare him off. And, ruin your chances. A real men dont give their word cheaply. When they do, they try their best to stick to it. - never give him impression that you got other toasters or you need to make decision from the numbers of toasters you got. - dont just send him inbox message of hi or hello. It makes no meaning to him. He can see you when you ready to play like Rebecca, Martha, Deborah or Rachael. - real or godly men dont go after sight scenes or back view or chest view of your profile pictures & collections of pictures or your affluence. - real men dont count much on personalities, wealth or your education standard. But looking out for beauty of God in you. - If a real or godly men send you friend request; he is simply saying give him a reason to know if you are the missing ribs he is looking for. Not that he is automatically after you. Never get it twisted. Funny enough; naughty guys that preferred naughty ladies for relationship at the beginning, later ends up bending their ladies to standard morality by force & by condition. You will not be surprised they later wants their ladies to be godly & submissive. If you got any question, see your group leader. Spirit of God is one. They will enlighten you in the knowledge of God. Since, Spirit of God is one. Otherwise, meet me on Tuesday btw 5 - 8pm during SOCIAL RELATIONSHIP forum. Stay blessed.
Posted on: Sat, 05 Jul 2014 12:27:42 +0000