THE IMPORTANCE OF LISTENING TO THE OTHERS IN ORDER TO GROW AS A PERSON. An important aspect in understanding what is happening around you is allowing others to furnish you with information. While they speak, you should learn as much as possible and try to understand if the other person is saying something interesting, or not, in relation to your personal growth. Many people are able to teach you important lessons, voluntarily or not, so it’s always worth it to listen to what they say, unless you already know them and know that they are imbeciles. In addition, you should ask questions to clarify ideas when the mental passages used in conversation seem obscure to you: he/she doesn’t mind – usually – the attention given to what they’re saying and you, on the other hand, will have learned more or less interesting aspects of that person. And this is not something of little count. In addition to listening to, of course, you must also learn to observe what the other person does while talking or while listening to us. Often, it’s obvious from a distance that someone would rather run away from that conversation and never return to that place, to avoid meeting, once again, the individual that besieged them. You should try to avoid putting yourself in the position of oppressor: if you see the person before you fidgeting, yawning or continuously checking the time, you’re obviously talking too much, have neglected the attention that you should have paid them and, in short, there remains nothing more for you to do than liberate this poor person from your grip. Finally, when you are called on to express your thoughts, you have to put things in the simplest possible way, avoiding difficult words or absurd sentence construction: twisted conversation does not show depth of thought, but a lack of understanding of the topic discussed. Why give this impression and bore everyone? Instead, you should speak slowly, enunciating well, while not skipping any logical passage in your reasoning. BY LISTENING TO THE OTHERS YOU CAN LEARN MANY LESSONS ABOUT YOURSELF. DONT STAY ONLY INTO YOUR MIND: OPEN YOUR HEART UP TO THE DIALOGUE WITH THE PEOPLE AND LEARN HOW TO PUT YOURSELF ASIDE FOR A WHILE. THIS WILL SHOW YOU NEW AND USEFUL APPROACHES TO LIIFE. THEN, IMPLEMENT THOSE APPROACHES ACCORDING TO YOUR TRUE PERSONALITY.
Posted on: Fri, 14 Mar 2014 10:33:52 +0000
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