THEY CANT GIVE ACCURATE ANSWERS!!! In life man need to listen or take advice from others or take examples inorder to increase our superior performance in career, marriage and relationship etc. For when comes to marriage, man are eager to know, learn how to be successful in their relationship. Many search through internet for coaching, counselling, while many listen to moltivational speakers, clerics etc just want best engagement. We are yawning to know how to keep our marriage good, we keep on seeking advice from people and even listen to cassettes or video tape, some even take movie actors and actresses as their counsellors or role models that will dictate how their nikkah should be while most subscribe to marriage articles . But they cant all give you precise and clear answers. I wonder what advice celibate will give than folks and tales story written in ink by frustrated and unexperienced and his assumption, also justify his doing. Not to talk about unmarried brothers and sisters than assumption of what they wish their spouses should be ( I want my future partner to be descent, intelligent respectfull, down to earth, honesty, knowledgeable and this nd that etc) that is all they will be saying. Divorcee will only give you bitter of marriage ( Ah! Man are wicked and mean. No woman is good, they are all vipers as if they know them all). I also wonder what guidelines movie actors or actress can put than how you should become someone like them(promiscuous), can them settle your home for you? When even themselves want good home to stay. You cant take advice of these people all and give them preference to Allah and His messenger cuz they are eloquent and fluent in speech or have knowledge doesnot mean they are good! My friends! May I tell you? No man can give details or all you want in your marriage, cuz they are successful in theirs dont mean you must use their method and successful. Allah and His messenger books are sufficient for you, if you want success in your marriage. Take them, learn them and explore the best examplary life styles and enjoy your relationship. Ibn Islam
Posted on: Thu, 04 Sep 2014 06:41:18 +0000
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