THIS IS FOR THOSE WHO SAY THAT I ALWAYS TELL PEOPLE TO GET A DIVORCE, WHICH IS NOT TRUE. BUT YES, IF ABUSE IS INVOLVED, I AM SUGGESTING IT. Dear Zane, I need some advise I am really stressed. I am 31 and been married for 3 yrs. I was laid off my job where I worked for 10 yrs. My husband got a better job and started acting funny. He would leave a hour early for work telling me he has a meeting. My gut is telling me something is not right so I go through his phone and there are pics from females body parts that he should not have in his phone but he is requesting them. I treat him good I cook and clean and take care of the kids I am hurt. He says I dont give me enough attention. I was confused. I caught him again 3 different times with naked pic in his phone that I pay for. Hes on Facebook trying to get females. When I say something about it he apologize for doing but he is still doing I check his FB acct everyday should I not do that. I found a app that let see all of his deleted texts OMG!!!! I want a divorce I deserve better what should I do please keep me private MY RESPONSE: A divorce may be premature. It sounds like you need to ask him to go to marriage counseling. Your husband is wrong for trying to fix your internal marriage issues by flirting and engaging the attention of other women. However, he is saying that he does not feel like you are giving him that attention. It may be as simple as planning some scheduled quality time together before he crosses that line and cannot fix anything at all. But you have to do something because right now, he has no motivation to change. There could be other issues with him such as having to be the only breadwinner for now. Bottom line, though. Both of you signed up for this marriage and you have kids. At least make an attempt to pull him back from the trenches but ultimately, if he wants to ruin your relationship, there will be nothing to stop him. Good luck.
Posted on: Fri, 18 Jul 2014 09:29:34 +0000
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