THIS YEAR HAS BEEN SUCH A RUFF YEAR FOR MY HUSBAND AND I. NOT WITHIN OUR RELATIONSHIP BUT WITH LIFES OBSTACLES THAT HAS BEEN THROWN AT US LEFT AND RIGHT. IVE ALWAYS BELIEVED THAT POSITIVITY AND DRIVE WILL GET YOU A LONG WAY IN LIFE AND PEOPLE TRULY WILL REVEAL THEMSELVES TO YOU WHEN YOU ARE AT YOUR LOWEST. THROUGH EVERYTHING THAT HAS BEEN GOING ON WE HAVE STAYED POSITIVE (OF COURSE WE HAD OUR DOWN DAYS), AS WELL AS MOST IMPORTANTLY, STICKING TOGETHER AND ENCOURAGING ONE ANOTHER IN OUR WEAKEST MOMENT. STUDIES SHOW THAT MOST MARRIAGES ENDS IN DIVORCE BECAUSE OF FINANCES, CHANGE IN LIFESTYLE, OR INFIDELITY. UP UNTIL MAYBE A MONTH AGO, I DIDNT BELIEVE IN FOREVER. EVEN THOUGH I WAS MARRIED, I BELIEVED THAT PEOPLE ASPIRE FOREVER BUT MANY DONT MAKE FOREVER DUE TO THE FACT THAT PEOPLE CHANGE AS WELL AS SITUATIONS CHANGES PEOPLE. ERIC AND I HAVE HAD MANY UP MOMENTS, WHEN EVERYTHING WAS EVERYTHING BUT WHAT ABOUT THOSE DOWN MOMENTS? THE MOMENTS THAT YOU DONT SEE ON SOCIAL MEDIA OR THE MOMENTS PEOPLE FRONT AS IF THEY DONT HAVE? WHAT ABOUT THE MOMENTS WHEN I CANT STAND YOU AND YOU CANT STAND ME. THE MOMENTS WHEN YOUR LIFESTYLE HAS TO CHANGE DUE TO JOB LAYOFFS? WHAT ABOUT THE MOMENTS WHEN SOMEONE WANTS TO THROW IN THE TOWEL? I WOULD BE LYING TO YOU IF I TOLD YOU THAT MARRIAGE IS EASY. I WOULD BE LYING TO YOU IF I TOLD YOU THAT WE HAVENT EXPERIENCED SOME OF THOSE MOMENTS. WHAT I CAN TELL YOU IS THAT WHEN YOU STICK TOGETHER AND CONTINUE TO BE THE SAME PERSON TO YOUR SPOUSE IN THE DOWN MOMENTS AS YOU ARE IN THE UP MOMENTS, YOU GAIN A WHOLE NEW RESPECT AND VIEW OF EACH OTHER THAT YOU WOULD ONLY GET BY STICKING TOGETHER AND RIDING THE WAVES OF LIFE OUT. MY LOVE AND RESPECT FOR YOU, ERIC HARRIS, AS MY FRIEND FIRST, MY HUSBAND SECOND, AND A MAN THIRD IS STRONGER NOW THAN IT HAS EVER BEEN IN THE SIX YEARS THAT WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER. IN EVERYTHING THAT WE HAVE BEEN THROUGH I HAVE LEARNED THAT YOU WILL LITERALLY DO ANYTHING BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY TO PROVIDE FOR OUR FAMILY. IVE LEARNED THAT YOU TRULY HAVE MY BACK AND ITS NOT SOMETHING YOU JUST SAY BUT SOMETHING YOU CONTINUE TO PROVE. I LEARNED THAT YOU REALLY DO LOVE ME MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOURSELF AND IN YOU, I FOUND MY BELIEF IN FOREVER. SO IF WE HAD TO GO THROUGH ALL THAT WE WENT THROUGH TO REALIZE THAT, THEN IT WAS ALL WORTH THE STRUGGLE. I LOVE YOU MR. HARRIS AND THIS HERE, WHAT WE GOT IS FOREVER!!! XOXO
Posted on: Thu, 25 Sep 2014 18:47:34 +0000
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