The Conclusion of the Matter: 21 of the most important things Ive learned thru counseling others in their relationships and in my own. Men and women, PLEASE share your comments, thoughts and feedback. Day 7 Truth – The Male Commitment Men and women confuse fear of commitment with fear of responsibility. The Conclusion of the Matter: When a man becomes earnestly aware of his responsibility as a husband that can be frightening – a bit unnerving. Fatherhood doesn’t seem to be as difficult to step into for a good man. Why? Fatherhood commitment is different from husband commitment. As well, the marriage commitment is different from the spousal commitment. It is innately in a man to “provide, protect, instruction, and discipline (set order).” All character traits essential to be a father (discipline) and husband (set order) but a few other traits are needed (that are not a natural part of the male’s make up). Being a husband is not like being a father. A man was born a son and has been a son (whether the father was involved or not). He often has a vision of the type of father he wanted or experienced and the type of father he wants to be. Being naturally competitive/conquerors, they want to be better. But he was has never been a husband. Often he has never seen what a good one (of either) looks like and therefore is unfamiliar. And the unfamiliar makes him (people) uncomfortable…It (relationship, commitment, marriage, being a husband) is scary. Some run from the unfamiliar, uncomfortable, scary; while the competitor in others embrace the challenge. The conquerors will seeks to win (the woman) & gain victory over the circumstance by confronting the fear. Be mindful that even when one has been previously married, he (she) probably had these/other issues that surfaced. Always 2sides. And may not have been or submitted to be the husband (wife) God formed him (her) to be for that spouse and therefore did not or was/is unable to meet their spouses needs. Please, if you are on the 2nd (or more) time around, learn from the previous but come with an eagerness to learn her/his needs and what they want – ask and listen to hear & apply. Do not put new wine (new relationship with a new person) into an old wine skin (old way of thinking and doing). #heretohelp #behealed #nofear #seektofind #asktoknow #trustgodtoloveagain #enjoylife
Posted on: Sat, 22 Mar 2014 10:20:05 +0000
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