The Insecure: People who are very possessive and controlling of others easily fall out of favor when those who feel controlled just what their peace, their space and or want to move forward with their life. And so, at times, the controlling or possessive people might start devising schemes to either present that move from prospering or to cripple that express of right to be in those they possess, and or they might start acting strange. The fear you show towards a behavior that has gone strange around or towards you will embolden it to carry out its enterprise against you. So, instead of fear: Question and confront it so that it can open up its mind to you for you to know whats in it, and or, so that it might begin to question itself and doubt its own intents. But, never walk in fear towards a familiar face turned foe. For fear is the power and tool of the enemy and it has torment. Most possessive and controlling people are the most insecure people in the world, with a mind thats open to and tormented by the devil, as he gives them pictures about their life thats isnt real or true. Which makes possessing you their only sense of security. Moreover, we often make the mistake of thinking that possessive or controlling people are leaders and bosses. But the surprising thing is that, it comes from insecurity. And most insecure people are those who not challenge themselves and who do less than they are supposed, meant to do or should be in a relationship, team and partnership that leaves them leaning more on the grace and generosity of those who do their best all the time. And so, when you start thinking that this togetherness or partnership is too one sided and is not productive or challenging enough for all you want to do and be with and in your life, and you start thinking of making some changes or of moving along or going with another, thats when you will start seeing all sorts of behavior and things aimed at bringing you down. They have strength to cripple you, but not the strength to bring things to the table to keep their place or take you and themselves FORWARD...
Posted on: Wed, 06 Nov 2013 18:18:52 +0000
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