The first stage of development towards an ego that approach the world around, is to study others behaviour and approaches towards it. This helps the person to gain associations towards how it feels to do what others are doing. We associate these actions and what they accomplished with definitions of a larger spectrum; mothers do like this, soilders do like this.. There are no individuality involved in these definitions of associated approach. It is only cut-out images of existences that have teh ability to define themselves with a special pattern of approach towards one self or others. The less we interact with diversity of people and life, the more we believe that our definitions of existing ones are universal. Next step is personalizing. That is improvised theater. (play) . Trying to interpret these existencial definitions by imitating. To gain positive feed-back either with the approach of the mother - that means receiving trust and closeness or the approach of the solider - that means submission of others - or other definitions. Both these examples (the result as personalizing and approaching as this definition) are seen as positive feed-back as that shows that the impersonalization have been successful. Even killing someone, if the person approach as a personalized hunter is seen as successful to the brain. You have copied someone and gotten the associated recognized responce - thats all. In this role you will always be in need of confirmation from the supporters of a job well done. The more we impersonalize upon definitions of others we seen, the more we reject ourselves, We are afraid of this truth because by choosing a definition for ourselves to approach others, we have just focused on impresonate that role well. We have created communities for those that define themselves in similar fashion - and there the skill to be the best impersonator of the definition creates internal conflict and competition. Noone wants to admit their look, approach and behaviour is just to impersonate a definition whose existencial approach gives a certain desired feed-back from others. How do we approach the world? Are we interested in own gain from it and by that modify our actions for the quickest result? Our approaches towards others shows our function as a being. By giving yourself this function, you choose to perceive others in a way you can relate your functional stance. Your matter of approach creates your daily perception, how you understand the world and your meaning in it. Your matter of approach makes you relate to things depending on what matter of approach they give you back. The most important step towards own freedom is to question your definition and approach towards the world. If you dare break that down and step out from the cocoon of impersonalization you will grow your own tree, not someone elses.
Posted on: Thu, 11 Sep 2014 16:17:14 +0000
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