The one thing I dispise is for someone I trusted to betray me. Another thing I dont tolerate is a gossiper. If I dont blog about it on this page, and I share things with others that I deem private about my personal human experiences, I dont expect for my shit to be spreaded like gospel. Theres too many people in one clan who know too much about me when I dont know anything about them. Granted, those who dont get intimate with you and are very tight-lipped about who they are, they fear that you are like them when it comes to their mouth. Thats perfectfully understandable. On the other hand, whether its conflict or something private in my life, no one is authorized to share without consulting me. I dont ever betray confidence. Ever! My career path depends on on my building trust in relationships to create confidence in my loyalty to those I will be working with. My entire lifes relationships with others have prepared me for who Im grooming to become. I only have in my circles of trust people who deal with me one-on-one at a time. However, if a group of us are together for support of a fellow friend or perfect stranger, whatever is said stays between us. If Im in conflict with someone Im intimately involved with and there are multiple of us that make up the circle of friendship, we still dont go behind the others back and talk shit on them. If anything, a third party is brought in to mediate between us. The third party does not take sides. Nor does the third party invest negative emotions. After weve said our peace, things go back the way they were. However, weve grown closer in our friendships with no loss of feelings nor trust for one another. Everyone needs validation. Because we understand that everyone is human, miscommunication is nothing to forgive. But trust is too difficult of a task to earn back once its lost. Therefore, we dont do the necessary to lose the trust weve relied on throughout our friendships. This is my maturity level among MY circles of trusts. Whichever is your spiritual compass - God or His fallen angels - be with you when I reintroduce myself to you after youve revealed who you are to me. I welcome and manage conflicts very well. However, drama doesnt go over well with me. If you tend to lean more part of the problem than part of the solution, you may want to hold your tongue. The better things will be on your ego. Hello. My name is Danisha C. Ford. Im pleased to meet your acquaintance.
Posted on: Thu, 25 Sep 2014 06:23:42 +0000
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