The things to pray against in a relationship 1) Pride..once one part is more proud than the other then discussions and chats are characterised with conflict as one part cant submit to the other due to pride...Pride is a serious psychological and emotional cancer that paralyses the essence and reason for being in a relationship...... 2)Superiority .....Let there be none seeing him\herself more superior than the other.. if a person feels she or he is more superior he \ she treats or views the other with contempt and despisement......Let both parties be more equal in all terms..... 3) Diverging perspectives...there has to be a common ground in a rship,,,once the way you perceive things differ then u cant walk into tomorrow together. rather, if you keep together yet with diverging feelings about life, then conflict and heartbreak will have a place in that relationship 4) The spirit of emptiness....once u begin to feel empty in a rship then that rship is falling down...You have to feel the life ,hope,dreams and hopes of the rship living in you everyday....Let the zeal to love and be loved be there every moment for thats what makes the future worthy marching towards..Once hope fades away and you feel like dreams are shattered you need to take careful action lest you waste time 5)the spirit of feeling void....when something is void it means it has no meaning and significance that is it hold s no substance and you dont cee where you are going...People in a rship must be clear and articulate about their future and very sensitive to stagnation.. 6)One sided rship.....a rship must not be one sided rather the scale must be balanced..Suggestions and ideas of both parties must find their way to consideration and implementation within the rship...Not to say one persons ideas are always superior and worthy than those of the other.. A one sided rship is characterised with dominance and being a creation of one part consequently the other part is compromised,short changed and dissatisfied 7)Spirit of dissatisfaction....one major cause of cheating,betrayal,heartbreaks and break ups is the spirit of discontent and dissatisfaction....Boys and girls we have a tendency of being discontent with our rship and partners and instead of rehabilitating our rship we tend to seek external remedies by considering other people ( the so called better guys or girls)...When u make a choice to a rship ( an informed not rushed choice) then we expect you to be content w your rship... 8)The spirit of fault finding or accusation....this spirit always brings judgement on each other and gradual erosion of trust and the zeal to hold on eventually fades always.....You need not to look for faults and errors always but at some point delight in his or her strengths and the mistakes wont have much of an impact...In as much as we must openly and constructively discuss each others mistakes,faults and weaknesses we must not bring each other to judgement....when u identify a mistake or fault the first step to make is to forgive then the rest follows..... 9) The spirit of History...some people even when in a good and progressive rship are unable to let go of their past...They continuously hold on to the past and even try to keep contacts with people of their past....Well the past can block out the joy of the present and create a historical person in you....Dont compare your partner to your last rship and dont threaten him of her saying + ndozvandaka rambira mumwr izvozvo.....Lets just be us and the future in the rship.....Its good to learn from the past but its destructive to bring up your past people time and again... 10) Spirit of stagnation...a rship must be progressive and eventful ,,,haikona kuita rship chitunha....There has to be direction and order in a rship moving towards a defined destiny called marriage in the Lord ..... mukomana as in gambit a ideal zvekuroora aaaah,,,musikana asingambotaurewo zvekuva muroora aaah....) Received from Tinashe Chabaya.
Posted on: Tue, 06 Jan 2015 07:24:34 +0000
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