There is a big problem with being a pollyanna who has co-dependent tendencies and who strives for communication skills that enable fighting fair. Most of the world doesnt fight fare during an argument. And THEY DONT WANT TO. So suddenly there you are in a dIsagreement... and youre thinking... Wow this person is coming off as a complete a#$h@#*... we could be resolving this If he/she could actually, actively lIsten and constructively dialogue... instead of getting personal, blowing up, using manipulative tactics, etc. Then being the somewhat educated person that you think you are in interpersonal communication skills... you say to yourself...Maybe I should tell him/her how to do this more effectively... maybe I could help them better argue this out... He/She could learn from this... THAT IS NEVER A GOOD IDEA.
Posted on: Sat, 28 Jun 2014 09:11:01 +0000
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