Theres a certain kind of sadness that accompanies a past relationship with someone, be it a friend or significant other. You guys meet, start talking all the time, and for a moment everything is going well until, without a warning, it turns into nothing. Maybe it was a silly fight you had with a friend because she went out with some controlling douche. You wanted the best for her, but she went off on you for not supporting her relationship and you havent spoken in years. You want to message your friend and check up on how shes doing, but stop yourself because she probably doesnt care about you anymore. Maybe it was a significant other you had feelings for. You vividly remember every meaningful conversation and cling on to all the sweet words exchanged between the two of you. He/she starts to push you away for fear of getting too attached. Where feelings once existed, nothing resides in its place. You want to message that person and try to work things out one more time, but break down in tears, longing for everything to be just how it was before all the arguments; before anyone else stepped in to ruin the relationship; before you were stupid enough to accept that things had to move on. You look back through all these old messages with a person who used to be such an important part of your life and visualize the happiest memories, playing them on repeat because you guys are strangers now and nothing will change that. The old flame can not be rekindled. Things wont be the same no matter how much you try to fix them.
Posted on: Mon, 11 Nov 2013 02:17:13 +0000
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