This boost homes from a sister who wishes to remain anonymous Aslm sis Amatullah, Please post as anonymous. Almost three years ago, I met with this guy. We kept in contact via Facebook and WhatsApp and it came to a point where he started talking marriage. I was excited about the whole thing, but only to find out that he is taking me as his 2nd wife, I refused because it’s my right to either agree or disagree to being a co-wife. Well before all this I was under the impression that he has never married before and he also disputed to being married or having kids. I ended agreeing to marry him because both him (though we not married yet, but have set a wedding date and preparations are taking place) and his family convinced me that he had separated with the 1st wife, which is not true. To make matters worse the 1st wife is giving me a hard time and spreading rumours about how I destroyed her marriage, but the funny thing is before she knew that he had asked for my hand in marriage she told me that their problems began long before I even came. What worries me is the fact that I work and she doesn’t, so get everything she asks for, whenever I ask for something I’m told to wait or it’s a straight no. I’m even thinking of leaving work, maybe than only will my fiancé be fair to us both. I understand that we not married yet, but is it still not his duty to treat us equally or will that happen once we married?? So will it be selfish or unfair if I decide to stay at home like 1st wife, after marriage?? Please advise.
Posted on: Tue, 22 Apr 2014 11:50:02 +0000
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