This is a message to all you fools in the friend zone. Begin rant: Listen man I dont feel sorry for you in the least. 1. Its your own fault you are where you are man. If she wanted you as a boyfriend she would constantly call you the key words buddy, brother or best friend these are tale-tale signs that you are going no further than where you already are. 2. Dude its only a down hill slope theres no climbing out. If she doesnt already have a Harley riding bad A boyfriend shes gonna find a masculine dude with money or something going for him. Quit focusing on being that nice sensitive friend for her to unload bs on and start focusing on yourself as a man. Shes looking for a guy that has some unique quality or a one up on all the rest, girls are incredibly resistant to settling for any less than what they perceive as a Mr. perfect. And dude you dont have to be perfect you just have to appear perfect or make them think you are to get their interest. They will tell you they want a sweet, tender guy but dude they want an alpha male its all lies that is why you are stick in the vicious cycle! 3. Here is my advice to you as someone with actual proven dating knowledge: first of all if she has a boyfriend, fiancé or husband you are total fool and are completely destined for failure withdraw yourself and never try for her again. Second if she doesnt youll still never climb out of the situation your in without first walking away. Cut your contact with her completely, that means texts, calls, conversations the whole works. She will become angry but thats normal just dont be a jerk about it tell her you need time away to reflect. Spend one month working on you. Your appearance, the way you carry yourself, body language, your body itself, your bank account, your ride, your clothes everything. Get a freaking job and a gym membership and make stuff happen. Talk to lots and lots of girls and take them out and explore your possibilities. Then in a few months when youve transformed yourself into a new man or a perceived alpha male hit her up. Dont be weird about it just straight up take her out be upfront with everything. Your intentions of where you want it to lead be forward with her. 99% of the time shes going to be dumb struck by your transformation and youve swept her off her feet if youve out in the work. If she still deems you as unworthy walk away forever and pick a new one. Keep trying until ya hook one! Girls hate that clingy crap and they throw up more walls by the day to guys like that. 4. Keep your transformation going you can always become a more powerful man. In conclusion I guess I just got tired of seeing guys whine bc they are stuck and feel like they are the victim of financial and emotional abuse when its their own freaking fault. Play it smart fellas grow a pair and dont let her hold in her purse and youll get a GF I promise bc Ive been where youve been when I was a chipper little young 16 year old ready to swoon with kind words. Be a man, man. End rant. :)
Posted on: Sun, 12 Oct 2014 03:24:27 +0000
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