This is specially for over possessive, judgmental men, dads, boy-friends, brothers, friends, or rather any male counterpart around us who need to learn to ... unlearn a few things about her • Just because she is friendly does not mean she is flirting with you. • Just because she is pretty does not mean she is a whore. • Having a boyfriend does not make her characterless. • Just because she likes everything pink and shiny and fluffy doesnt mean she lives in her own world. She can handle some situations much better than her male counterparts. • Just because she has recently gone through a break up doesnt mean she is vulnerable and available. • Just because most of her friends are boys, does not mean she is having a good time with all of them. • Just because she wore a short skirt to one party does not mean she dresses up that way every day. • Just because she is ambitious doesnt mean she isnt a family person. • Just because she doesnt discuss her plans doesnt mean shes clueless about life. • Just because she is outspoken doesnt mean she is a rebel. • Just because she comes home late from work does not mean she is sleeping around with her colleagues. • After a hectic week, give her some time to relax over the weekend. Dont make that one weekend party make her look like a shes a frivolous party-girl without a job. • Just because she is out shopping alone does not mean she is depressed or lonely. Its how she relaxes. • Just because she is on a holiday alone does not mean she doesnt have company. Maybe its a break to get back her lost confidence, or maybe thats how she is. Admire her spirit instead of giving her a piece of mind. • Just because she is a woman doesnt mean she cant kick ass in military school. • Not every girl wants to get married by 23. So before you ASSUME shes of marriageable age, ask her what her views on marriage are. • Just because a girl wishes to do her PhD after Masters does not mean she doesnt want to settle down in life. Give her a break, and respect the fact that she has the confidence to take that up, cos yeah, PhD is no joke • Just because she is 27 and unmarried does not mean shes been rejected by many men. Maybe, being single is a choice she has made. Just because she has a tattoo doesnt mean she is attention seeking. Maybe thats her way of expression. • Just because she doesnt know how to cook doesnt mean she wont make a good wife. Hire a cook instead… Yes, we cry, we are emotional; we take things personally, and sometimes over-react to situations. But this does not give any one the right to judge us. Times are changing; dont confine her within those boundaries, no matter how orthodox you are. ---- Author unknown (But I love you for penning this) PS: Pl save your energy by not commenting in-case you DISAGREE....we hardly care ;)
Posted on: Wed, 30 Apr 2014 04:23:15 +0000
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