This pregnant Mum needs a good dose of constructive advice and wise counsel.... I need help prayers and solutions. I got married to my husband after he graduated from school, because he was the only son and we dated for 3yrs before we got married. Before we got married, the mom was kind and nice to me (dont know if it was to my face and something else behind my back). My husband had a problem in school and couldnt graduate while Ii graduated. Though I am through with my NYSC and no job yet, my husband hustles and takes care of me and our son. We stay with his mother who tells all my husbands 5 elder sisters anything we buy, go to or just about anything. And they in return tell their husbands. Now why my husband cant move out of the house is that in Benue state, Tiv to be precise they want their only sons to stay in their fathers house especially if the womans husband is dead. And my husband on the other hand, is controlled by his mom and siblings. He listens to them. His friend once told me that when he mentioned moving out of his fathers house to his siblings, they said they will come and carry their mother away. Despite my husband being a hustler and has now return to school, his sisters dont bring food to the house. We virtually buy everything in the house. His mom is retired but owns a provision shop. She doesnt care how the house feeds and shes living with us. My husbands sisters are doing well with their husbands but they will never ever decide to be of help. I have endured everything even side comments they throw @ me. And any time they even visit they go straight to their mothers room and my room is before hers, showing they dont even value me. Now Im even pregnant 4 the 2nd time. I need a job that will take me out the house since thats what my husband suggested. Now what can I do to end all these? I need space to start up my family the way I want even if i dont have enough for now and I also need space away from them. They dont value me and I am the one that takes care of the house and cooks 4 their mother to even eat, not that shes that old. Shes 69yrs according to her. Please pray 4 me, I am tired of been patient.
Posted on: Sat, 26 Jul 2014 12:00:00 +0000
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